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im worried about my brother
Replies: 15 — Last Post Jan. 9 6:59pm by blufindr
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he (17) been with his gf(16) around 6/7 months he engaged to her and recently i found out that he had unprotected sex with her. he asked me recently if i had any spare contraceptive pills as his gf ran out of them 2 months ago and hasnt had chance to go to the doctors. i told him to make sure he keeps safe with a condom and he goes i dont need them as she not got pregnant yet. im worried he moving too fast and gonna be a dad soon and he not thinking about the future properly. my parents dont approve of her as she got him to leave college and now he walks dogs for £15 a day and she dont work at all. all they do is have sex all day and drink around a bottle of vodka and a case of beer a day

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He's most definitely moving too fast.

Leave some condoms in his room.

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Yikes.

Not sure there it too much you can do other than talk to him and let him make his own mistakes.

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Quote: from blufindr at 12:47 pm on Jan. 9, 2009
He's most definitely moving too fast.

Leave some condoms in his room.

i gave him all the ones i have so about 40 (wont be needing them anymore as dont have a bf) and he went yay willy balloons and blow like 10 of them up. anyone that acts like this should not be having sex so imagine him with a kid

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the only thing that you can you do for your prodigal brother  is let him learn to himself how awkward this world will  be for those who messed up in decision making for their selves.

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Quote: from atarisrocks at 11:49 pm on Jan. 9, 2009
Quote: from blufindr at 12:47 pm on Jan. 9, 2009
He's most definitely moving too fast.  

 Leave some condoms in his room.

i gave him all the ones i have so about 40 (wont be needing them anymore as dont have a bf) and he went yay willy balloons and blow like 10 of them up. anyone that acts like this should not be having sex so imagine him with a kid

Talk to his girlfriend.

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Quote: from loner asian at 12:50 pm on Jan. 9, 2009
the only thing that you can you do for your prodigal brother is let him learn to himself how awkward this world will be for those who messed up in decision making for their selves.

i feel that if he makes his own mistake a unwanted child will be brought into the world

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Quote: from atarisrocks at 4:52 am on Jan. 9, 2009
Quote: from loner asian at 12:50 pm on Jan. 9, 2009
the only thing that you can you do for your prodigal brother  is let him learn to himself how awkward this world will  be for those who messed up in decision making for their selves.

i feel that if he makes his own mistake a unwanted child will be brought into the world

but you can't make a   any decision for your brother. and you already did your part of giving the best advice you could give.
your brother is an idiot. he's worse than a drunkard who does know that the best thing he could do is to listen at you, but he doesn't cause of pride.

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Quote: from blufindr at 12:52 pm on Jan. 9, 2009
Quote: from atarisrocks at 11:49 pm on Jan. 9, 2009
Quote: from blufindr at 12:47 pm on Jan. 9, 2009
He's most definitely moving too fast.

  Leave some condoms in his room.

 

 i gave him all the ones i have so about 40 (wont be needing them anymore as dont have a bf) and he went yay willy balloons and blow like 10 of them up. anyone that acts like this should not be having sex so imagine him with a kid

Talk to his girlfriend.

i would if i ever met her sober but she drunk 24/7

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Quote: from atarisrocks at 12:05 am on Jan. 10, 2009
i would if i ever met her sober but she drunk 24/7

Hide the booze. Then talk to her.

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Quote: from blufindr at 1:08 pm on Jan. 9, 2009
Quote: from atarisrocks at 12:05 am on Jan. 10, 2009
i would if i ever met her sober but she drunk 24/7

Hide the booze. Then talk to her.


she gets them at her house

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Are you freaking serious?! Thats a combination is going to be a disaster!
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Quote: from atarisrocks at 12:12 am on Jan. 10, 2009
Quote: from blufindr at 1:08 pm on Jan. 9, 2009
Quote: from atarisrocks at 12:05 am on Jan. 10, 2009
i would if i ever met her sober but she drunk 24/7
 

 Hide the booze. Then talk to her.


she gets them at her house

Get your parents to talk to him.

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Quote: from blufindr at 1:15 pm on Jan. 9, 2009
Quote: from atarisrocks at 12:12 am on Jan. 10, 2009
Quote: from blufindr at 1:08 pm on Jan. 9, 2009
Quote: from atarisrocks at 12:05 am on Jan. 10, 2009
i would if i ever met her sober but she drunk 24/7

  Hide the booze. Then talk to her.

 
 she gets them at her house

Get your parents to talk to him.


they tried but he does the oppersite they say no drinking so he drinks while working. they say she cant stay over he sneaks her in.

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holy crap. definitely moving too fast. have her go to the store and get that plan b stuff. u dont need an rx. trust me, it works.

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