The thing is as a guy, I know that not all guy friends are just friends. Girls may view them as such but some guy friends are just guys waiting for the right chance, banking on friendship to translate into something meaningful. You may not intend to hurt your bf or anything, but you're still with potential guys whether you realize it or not. Another thing is, not being able to get along with girls and only guys can mean something.

Of course, he could just be overly jealous. In that case, you have to calmly talk to him and he has to calmly talk to you.

I would suggest that you give him an ultimatum....straighten up or find another girl to try to control.

All you can really do here is show him that you can be trusted however, some people are just naturally jealous, it's just because he cares but if it's getting too much I wouldn't stay around in the relationship.

If you give into his jealousy then he knows he has a control over your life and that isn't what you want. I suggest you try and talk to this about him first, if he doesn't understand or it carries on I just say tell him it's not working, because it doesn't sound like it is. You shouldn't be pulled away from your friends because of some guy in your life, it's not fair.

If you decide to break up with him, give him a fair explanation of why you're doing it, don't just tell him it's over and leave it because it's always nicer to have an explanation, well, it doesn't make it any easier than it is I guess but some reassurance that someone isn't physically good enough can be a bit of an ease on their mind.

Good luck!