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my bf forgot part 2
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Replies: 6 — Last Post Jan. 6 10:44am by chikichicky
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help me figure this out.

back info : his grandfather is dying and he is trying to switch schools which scares him cause he doesn't know if he can hack it, He doesn't talk to me about whats going on.... and he has the flu


here is the convo

me:u feeling anybetter?

him:not particularly

me:aww

him:im srry

me:u have to work?

him:yup

him:happy birthday, by the by

me:thanks

me:did u actually remember?

me:or read my blog thing

(him:what blog thing?

me:never mind

me:lol

him:myspace?

me:posted one on okcupid

him:oh

me:look i need to know.....

me:are we ok?

him:I have a load of stuff going on right now, and it all sucks

him:I'm going to need some time to get myself straightened out


me:well do u want to talk about it?

me:cause u know id help if i could

him:I really don't want to talk about it right now

me:alright


me:so u dont want to talk to me at all?

me:i guess when u figure things out ill be here for u

him:I'll talk to you when I can

me:well i hope u feel better

him:but right now I have too much else to worry about

him:if you need to talk I can

me:well like i said im here if u need to talk

me:g-night

please help me figure this out? what should i do?

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What is there to figure out? Leave him alone. He'll talk to you when he feels like it.

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Go to sleep, you liar.

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its over.

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Give him the space he needs. He's going through a rough time and be there for him when you can but don't push it.

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I had the same problem. He said it was his problem, with everything going on. It was actually something I had said. It went on a month before I finally made him tell me what the fuck was up, and he's like "You said you didn't want me, whaaa"

Fuck boys.

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If he's not going to initiate the talk, then perhaps you can press it. He seems to get the idea that he has to handle it alone, but being in a part of a relationship means sharing both pain and happiness. He probably doesn't want to involve you and worry you, so he's chosen to disclose information from you. If you really do care about him, let him know that there's no reason why he should shoulder the burden by himself. If he shares that weight, the recovery process will be quicker. Sometimes even a big comforting hug can do a lot.

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