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how to tell a guy you cheated
Replies: 23 — Last Post Jan. 8 5:00pm by A6stringpoet
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how do you tell your bf you cheated on him, and not have him freak out. He's suicidal, and im sooooo depressed lately.

I dont know if i can tell him, but the guilt is consuming me.

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Then maybe you shouldn't have been stupid by cheating on him.

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there is no good way

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Well the best way is just to blurt it out but after give your explanation as to why you did it, don't just say nothing because it will only make it worse.
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Im not saying it was smart.

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talk to him in a calm voice dont cry or anything and talk with him about it if you break up so be it. he'll move on

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you'll prolly eventually put it out of your mind.

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wtf? if he's suicidal i have to admit, in your shoes, i wouldnt tell. i think you shouldnt mention it and break up gently over time. if you cheated then you clearly think something is missing from your relationship!

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Come out with it, tell him the truth. The shame you'll experience should be enough never to cheat on a guy again. Only what hes reaction will be, I'd hestitate to say. But - by owning up, and telling the truth, you'll be sure never to cheat on anyone ever again.

Often we learn the hard way. My late mother said it's all part of our growing up.  

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Just go out and say it...

sometimes simplicity is the best way to handle a situation.

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I can see him killing himself.

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"i cheated on you but don't kill yourself because i'll do whatever you want to make up for it"

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Honestly, if you cheated on your boyfriend and he's also suicidal, I suggest getting out of your current relationship. It is likely that your depression is caused both by his instability and by your act. I often say that cheating is a sign of someone who was not ready to commit, but wanted the stability of a boy/girlfriend near by. Right now you have worst of both worlds, and honestly, I believe you 'll need to move on. It is best not to let him know that you cheated, unless STDs are involved. Letting him know would only deepen his anxiety further than it needs to be.

For his sake and yours, break it off, and leave the situation alone.

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there is no easy way to tell your BF you cheated, maybe you shouldnt have cheated in the first place

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Quote: from The Fantasy at 12:57 pm on Jan. 8, 2009
I can see him killing himself.

oh wow thanx sooo much. i didnt know i was betting on wether he lived or died.

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