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Quote: from The Fantasy at 12:57 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

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I can see him killing himself.

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oh wow thanx sooo much. i didnt know i was betting on wether he lived or died.

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well, it wasa pretty stupid idea, to cheat on him, and to then want to tell him, when you know he's suicidal and depressed. it's pretty obvious, that it could push him over the edge.

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there's nothing i wouldn't do, just to see your face again.

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Honestly, if you cheated on your boyfriend and he's also suicidal, I suggest getting out of your current relationship. It is likely that your depression is caused both by his instability and by your act. I often say that cheating is a sign of someone who was not ready to commit, but wanted the stability of a boy/girlfriend near by. Right now you have worst of both worlds, and honestly, I believe you 'll need to move on. It is best not to let him know that you cheated, unless STDs are involved. Letting him know would only deepen his anxiety further than it needs to be.  

For his sake and yours, break it off, and leave the situation alone.

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Quote: from A6stringpoet at 12:59 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

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Honestly, if you cheated on your boyfriend and he's also suicidal, I suggest getting out of your current relationship. It is likely that your depression is caused both by his instability and by your act. I often say that cheating is a sign of someone who was not ready to commit, but wanted the stability of a boy/girlfriend near by. Right now you have worst of both worlds, and honestly, I believe you 'll need to move on. It is best not to let him know that you cheated, unless STDs are involved. Letting him know would only deepen his anxiety further than it needs to be.

 For his sake and yours, break it off, and leave the situation alone.

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breakups suck as well for suicidal people

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Yes but, prepetuating a relationship just because someone is suicidal is extremely unhealthy for both people. I had an ex girlfriend who threatened to kill herself if I left. I told her that I hoped that she wouldn't do it but that I had made up my mind. You can not mandate affection. If they killed themselves, it would not be the other person's fault. That is an extremely unfair burden, even if the person was unfaithful. (Though I wasn't unfaithful in that other relationship)

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I'm known as Mage and you are?.. You're Someone?.. Pleased to meet ya!

whether or not it's your fault is quite a secondary issue

It is a sick ultimatum if you ask me. I felt bad for her, but people have to just try to cope. There really is no reason to kill yourself, especially relationships.

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I'm known as Mage and you are?.. You're Someone?.. Pleased to meet ya!