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( Andie2323 )
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okay, this is kind of complicated so i'll break it down as best as i can. i'm a junior now. freshman year, this guy, joey, told my best friend that he liked her aand wanted to go out with her, but then basically he was just messing with her completely. so i lectured him and prank called him for a week to get back at him( i know it was immature).
but anyways, at the end of sophomore year, i was at the pool with a bunch of friends and joey was there. he got the nerve to call me fat and make jokes about it to my friends when i was there. so i went up to him and asked him what his problem was and he basically kept saying that to me. he KNEW i had been bulimic i think before. but anyway, my friends all stood up for me andmy mom came to pick me up because i was really embarassed (i cried in front of everyone...ugh)
so anyway, one of my best friends is now hooking up with him...and she wants to go out with him. the first time i foound out, i said i didn't care because she said it wasn't going to go anywhere. but when i found out more now, i told her i kind of felt betrayed and said i couldn't talk to her anymore. she told some of her friends and one of the girls would not sotp texting and calling me and iming me. she started criticizing me for not wanting to party/drink with them and for being "a bitch" because i won't talk to the other girl for being with joey. she ALSO started saying she was becoming best friends with my ex boyfriend, who im really good friends with. she doesnt even KNOW him, she just added him on facebook. she started cursing at me, so i cursed right back....=/
anyway, do i have a right to be mad? or am i compltely overreacting? what do i do?!
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Of course you have the right to be angry or upset after what happened, you stuck up for your friend and yourself and you shouldn't be punished for it. You're not overreacting at all. However, at your age girls are going to do what they can to get with the guy they want, it's just one of those things. I wouldn't suggest stopping talking to her if you are in a friendship circle just, try to stay out of her way and only talk to her if you HAVE to, even if it's just a few words, be the mature one here. As for your ex boyfriend, if you're still good friends with him then what does it matter eh? you aren't loosing a friend here, if this other girl wants to say bad things about you or to you then she really needs to take a good look in the mirror and grow up. Being called anything, especially 'fat' can tear people up inside so just, hold it together, I don't believe people can be fat, just because they don't look the same as someone else. Fat is just a word used to make someone feel bad, like ugly, nobody is ugly, they just look different to people in magazines. Hm, I can't really suggest much else unless you make a new friend circle and just block them on IM and ignore the texts, they will get bored eventually. Alternatively, keep the texts and show a teacher what is going on, she might be able to help.
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( Andie2323 )
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Should I apologize to my friend? (the girl who wants to be with joey)
and I explained the situation to my ex boyfriend about the girl.
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