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How to get him talking to me
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Replies: 8 — Last Post Jan. 10 6:48am by tinman
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I liked this guy but he won't talk to me at the minute, he ignored my last email and text too.. we were talking as friends for quite a while but recently he said a lot of 'im interested in you' stuff and then he went all funny and hasnt been out since ( i never said it back ).. then we got talking again and he said it all over again but i just carried on talking as normal because i want to get to know him a lot better and stuff but now hes messing about and ignoring me. I tried to put us back to normal with normal conversation but hes making it very obvious hes not talking, the only time he'll talk is when he thinks i'm annoyed at him for ignoring me.. but that is silly because i'm not annoyed at him i just want us to be normal again. help?
8:09 am on Jan. 8, 2009
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8:09 am on Jan. 8, 2009
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Quote: from penguinsrule at 1:02 am on July 18, 2008
LOL i read this as vacuum lollipops. wow...just wow.

and i dunno. none lol!?

A Freudian slip or a tragic failure of the education system? You decide.

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So he came on to you twice and you carried on normal conversation both times?

He probably took that as a sign you aren't interested.

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it would probably help if you told him how you felt.. leaving him left out in the dark when he says he is interested in you doesn't help the situation.. next time he says it or even before tell him where you stand with the situation

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oh ya.

call the cops. its better for her to be mad then dead

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Maybe he doesn't think you are interested.

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well she could die if she OD's.

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yeah :/
8:13 am on Jan. 8, 2009
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yeah i think he thinks im not interested, but ive tried to get him talking to me again and hes completely shut me out. and i dont want to jump in with 'im interested in you too' because i dont know for sure yet i think i am but i want to know him better..
8:13 am on Jan. 8, 2009
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show him your tittys then he wont leave you alone

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Quote: from SovSull at 12:06 am on July 25, 2008
held a girl's hand
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Well, he obviously got the impression that you're not interested in him, so he got embarrassed and upset, that's why he ignores you.
Continue talking to him normally, but the most important is to tell him how you really feel about him.
Tell him you want to know him better first, before making any decisions, and that you need time to think (if this is the case).
He will most likely continue talking to you, without ignoring you, because now he thinks you're beginning to like him (you might be, or not, but he'll still think that).
And, as he thinks you're annoyed with him, tell him you're not, and say that you just want to be good friends like before.

I would just put the past behind me, and continue to be friends with the guy.

I hope this helps!

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It was okay. Not really an extreme in either direction.

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Okay?

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He's ignoring you because he is feeling awkward about himself too.

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aha, the arguments you cause make me lol.
and i openly participate in them :)
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Quote: from Anonymous at 8:13 am on Jan. 8, 2009
yeah i think he thinks im not interested, but ive tried to get him talking to me again and hes completely shut me out. and i dont want to jump in with 'im interested in you too' because i dont know for sure yet i think i am but i want to know him better..


you have everything you need, tell him this so that he understands

also the fact that you want to talk to him again means you have an interest in him

your just not sure if yet about being interested in being together with him

so i think saying "im interested in you as well, lets take it slow and get to know each other before we go out or do anything else"

would be something acceptable to say because youre not committing to a relationship, youre just committing to giving him a shot which is what you want to do anyways  

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