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Replies: 10Last Post Jan. 9 4:57pm by flyonthewall
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Soda.

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Just so you know; you don't play guitar with your neck bro
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I'm a bit confused about what I should do. about 2 weeks ago my friend introduced me to this guy named Nicholas; he's 25 and I'm 19. We were at Guitar Center and that's where he works and she's known him for a couple of years already. I was with her and she just like casually introduced us nothing big. Well then we start talking on myspace and facebook, just like casual stuff and lately we've been talking a lot on AIM and on the phone. He's a very sweet guy, and he's very intellectual and I enjoy talking to him & he's physically attractive as well & we just seem to have this connection. His parents are going to be in California this weekend and...well Sunday he wants to hang out, go see a movie, and then go to dinner or something where we can talk and get to know each other better. He plays guitar,writes his own songs,and sings, and he has his own studio at his house and he wants to show it to me. And he said after that maybe we can cuddle up in front of the fire place and watch a movie and be all romantic-like maybe have some wine or something as well. And don't get me wrong I'd love to spend time with him; It's just that I don't know him all that well....so I may be a bit uncomfortable being alone at his house with him but idk. He doesn't strike me as the type of man to try anything, like rape or slip me drugs or anything. He seems like a very nice guy and he is according to my friend. But idk..Should I go for it? What should I do or what precautions should I take?

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Go for it. But be careful!

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soda

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Aww, I'd go for it. Good luck!

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I don't drink it, but I call it soda.

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Quote: from Aratal at 8:09 pm on July 24, 2008

Well I say soda, but I don't really drink it.

That.

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I think the first time you hang out with him you shouldn't be alone. Stick to the dinner and the movies - the stuff in public - and at the least take it from there and play it by ear.

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Quote: from davidrocksdude at 8:09 pm on July 24, 2008

please include their prices as well.

Dude, fuck that. Find the prices out on your own.

Mikes hard lemonade and twisted tea, smirnoff ice and smirnoff twisted whatevers...

wine coolers, guiness (beer), grolsch (beer)

Also, mixing malibu coconut rum with canned pineapple juice is both delicious and sneakily alcoholic.

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dont drink the wine, i wouldnt recomand really. but other stuff seems really sweet, go for it.

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WEll seems like you know him as well as you possibly can from just meeting on the internet heh, but I think the solution to this is maybe do a group date thing and talk it through with him to be sure that it is ok with him. But bring a friend for safety so that you know he isn't some psycho, and you have that comfort there.

Good luck, hope you two work out :)

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Quote: from hard candy at 8:13 pm on July 24, 2008

Quote: from rebelmozzerella at 5:10 pm on July 24, 2008

Quote: from 420Mike at 8:09 pm on July 24, 2008

Mikes hard
 

 Good stuff right there.


no crap espeshaly the pink stuff


I think it tastes pretty good, then again I like lemon-aid.

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Quote: from benjacksoff at 8:10 pm on July 24, 2008

well most of them said they were disease free

Most of them will lie. They have no reason to tell you the truth. If anything, it's worse for them because if they did tell you the truth, you wouldn't sleep with them. So it's in their best interest to lie.

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I say go for it. But don't go to his house if he gives you ANY reason to doubt him beforehand.

I hope everything works out.

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Quote: from CheyBear at 1:01 am on July 25, 2008

Hey there.

I'm bad.
You?



Awh im ok

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Ummmm I hope you work it out thats all I can do 4 u!Cuz im new

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I find it ridiculous someone called the cops!

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sure go out on a date with him, but don't go to his house to "cuddle" "drink wine" and be "romantic".  He's much older, and since you don't know him that well you can't be sure of his intentions.  The smart thing to do would be to date him (if you're that interested) but don't go "full force" especially since you barely know him.  think about it...

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I'd say you should take it slow. Go to the movies and to dinner, but don't go to his house. If he needs a reason why you can't go, just say you have to get to bed early or something.

When you know him better and are legit dating him, going to his house, etc, sounds like a cute idea.


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It is groupies but I'm sure they wanted both.

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find yourself your own shortie. dont betray your friend (bros before hoes)

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text the friend that introduced you before you go to his house so somebody knows where you are. he seems nice so dont be paranoid. but also be smart about what you do.

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