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Quote: from cozysoxx at 7:20 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

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Quote: from PrideAndJoy at 7:18 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

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I think the more you get to know him, the more you'll realize he is like everybody else out there. I would suggest keeping your distance, or else you'll spoil the fantasy.

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 The more i think about this the more logical it is. Ive never thought about it like that.

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what if he's not like everyone else, maybe he'd something special to you, and you might regret it later if you ignore him

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That goes both ways. What if she meets him, he's like everyone else (which is probably the situation) and now she regrets ever taking things further. She had her little romance perfect with the occasional texts and calls, but once she got to hanging out with him on a daily basis, she fines out he's unintelligent, boring, unfunny, and an asshole. Some of my biggest regrets are really getting to know people and subsequently losing them as friends or girlfriends. It's all a matter of which regret will be the more severe.