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So, I'm not the mother of a 12 day old baby. A few nights ago, when she was being especially fussy, her father (or my boyfriend, which ever you wanna call him) got a bit rough with her. He wasn't putting her in any serious harm but he was rough housing. My family is really pissed at him and doesn't even want to let him into their homes. We're suppose to go to parenting classes and all this crap because someone filed a report that he was abusive. Basically I'm really torn. I love Chris but I hate his behavior. I just really don't know what to do. I want this to work, but some people say that he will never change...HELP

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better to tackle the problem now and go to the classes before it possbly gets worse

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Quote: from scout123 at 11:00 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

better to tackle the problem now and go to the classes before it possbly gets worse
I agree.

It is possible for him to change. If he's putting your baby in danger though... I wouldn't leave him alone with him/her.

Post edited at 3:01 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 by Points


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baby comes first now. get rid of the bastard, he's been nothing but a dick by the sounds of your posts xx

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Quote: from scout123 at 3:00 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

better to tackle the problem now and go to the classes before it possbly gets worse

Agreed.

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People can change if they want to. Try it and see if he does change. If not then at least you tried.

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Talk to him, explain your predicament. Set a time limit. If he hasn't improved his behaviour you've got to say good bye to him. His border-line abusive behaviour could easily develop into real abuse and that's something you don't want to happen. Regardless of how much you love him I hope you love yourself and your child more because if he behaves poorly you both deserve better.

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Quote: from Natsy at 6:01 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

baby comes first now. get rid of the bastard, he's been nothing but a dick by the sounds of your posts xx

yeah, i think you told me to get rid of him before, and i'm starting to think you're right

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The parenting classes should help him understand the delicacy of a infant if he's too dumb to know that himself. Sounds like you had a  baby by a douche. Anywho always put your baby first, and keep it safe no matter what.

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Why'd you say you're not the mother?

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Quote: from guitargogo90 at 11:02 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

Quote: from Natsy at 6:01 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

baby comes first now. get rid of the bastard, he's been nothing but a dick by the sounds of your posts xx

yeah, i think you told me to get rid of him before, and i'm starting to think you're right


i probably did and even though it could be hard, it will be better in the long run. guys like him don't change.

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if he dosnt change soon you need to get rid of him or the baby, you better keep that baby out of danger, and never leave it alone with him.

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You can try to work things out with your boyfriend for the rest of your life, but you have to protect your baby and his best interests now. Don't put your child in any danger because of an irresponsible father.

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Quote: from kissmeintherain91 at 6:02 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

Why'd you say you're not the mother?

sorry i meant NOW the mother...my bad

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I would not put up with someone acting aggresively towards my two week old baby. that is sick.

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