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Quote: from kissmeintherain91 at 6:02 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

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Why'd you say you're not the mother?

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sorry i meant NOW the mother...my bad

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I'm glad you clarified this because I was totally confused.  Now all is better in my mind.

As others have said, concern for your child must come first.  You say you love Chris, but hate his bahavior.  Well, parenting classes may be the way for him to change his behavior.  Although no parent likes to be reported, that person was concerned for your child.  
If after the parenting classes have ended Chris's behavior hasn't changed significantly, you need to end it.  If it doesn't get better, it'll only get worse and your baby deserves better.  BUt all three of you deserve to find out if Chris can become a worthy father and partner.  Good luck.