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He's leaving me...
Replies: 9 — Last Post Jan. 7 7:51am by kissmeintherain91
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Technician 		Reply
my bf who i've had for 1yr and 2 months just decided yesterday that he wants to go to california for welding training in the marines....i dont want him to leave me...i want him to do what he wants with his life but hes gonna be gone for 6 months and thers a 2% chance he has to go overseas....how do i convince him he can get a good welding job here and not have to join the marines...w/o making him hate me cuz i dont want him to leave. we plan on getting married after he gets out of training..but i just dont know...ugghh...so confused..
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snowcone200


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How old are you? 1 yr and your talking marriage. He's still young obviously and yes him leaving may change him. But you both can't tie each other down over an engagement(a promise). If he come baq gud
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Sins and Demons


Wealthy Hobo 		Reply
Let him go, how the world is going now and the American economy if he can go train and get a job let him do it.

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My Dreams WILL Wait


Executive 		Reply
Okay...You'll marry him in the end. I don't see what's bothering you?! I know you don't want to be alone for 6 months..but think about the wedding and when he gets back..

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"Loyalty means nothing unless it has at its
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zluvsanime


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its not hard, if you love him dont hold him back

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cedesbenz


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LET HIM TAKE THE OPPORTUNITY.. THIS CAN HELP BOTH YOU AND HIM IN THE FUTURE. I KNOW ITS GOING TO BE HARD TO BE WITHOUT HIM THAT IS ALONG TIME WITHOUT SOMEONE YOU CARE FOR BUT THIS CAN MAKE OR BREAK YOU AND HIS LIFE TOGETHER IN THE FUTURE.. JUST KNOW  HE;S COMING BACK..

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Chiefette


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How old are you?  You have to remember this is his life.  Maybe you should reconsider getting married.  You are his girlfriend, not his mother.  You should be going along with what he wants, not trying to convince him to change.

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snowcone200


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You don't know, you can just hope. Otherwise you'll be hurt if he don't bother coming back to you or you find somebody else while he gone.
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SplitPersonality


Lawn Care Specialist 		Reply
Sometimes you just have to let it go. Marriage is such a big step in life. And for him to join the Marines, you'll need to be understanding that he's doing it to better himself. Without this step, which is HIS choice, he can never truly see what he is capable of.

It's sad how life has to suddenly be the way it is in this case-scenario, but you have to look at this as if it were a test. To find how far you're willing to go, in order for you two to stay together.

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WHAT THE FUCK KIND OF LAME SHIT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? YOU DON'T MAKE SENSE. I'M GOING TO REPEAT IT AS MUCH AS I CAN TO YOU. STOP HELPING THESE STRANGERS OUT, MAN.

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kissmeintherain91


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Don't stop him. I tried that when my ex joined the air force, he ended up leavingme. Its been 2 years and we are now back together. Believe me, support him and stay by his side, it'll all work out

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