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( jamiacansun )
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ok so a while back i posted about a girl in high school that i liked. here is my initial post.
ok, i need some help here. myself and this girl have hung out 4 out of the last 5 days. we kiss, hold hands, hug, i hold her, and weve just seemed to get along great. she has only had one boyfriend throughout high school, shes a senior this year, while im a freshman in college. this guy was a total jerk to her, hit her, did some other things bad enough not to say on here, and she cannot stand him anymore. i asked her to be my girlfriend the other day after date number 4. she said she isnt ready for a relationship right now. is it because she is scared im going to be like the last guy and she doesnt want her heart broke again? any and all help would be appreciated..is there anything i can tell her to reassure her ill be different and take care of her?
well a week or two has passed and here is an update.
we hung out for 4 days in row, made out a bunch. some touching and feeling and licking and so forth. nothing huge just a little messing around. then day 5, we didnt hang out because her and her friends were hvaing a girls night. we hung out the day after for new years eve for a couple hours then she had other plans with her friends that she had made about a month prior to us talking. then on the 3 she tells me she isnt quite ready for a relationship and says we need to just chill for a couple days. the 4 i went to a basketball game and she cheers, she walks by and doesnt say hi all night. then the next day i find out the night of her girls night they went to a party and the girl i had been hanging out with has sex with another guy. i am pretty pi$$ed about the whole situation but we have talked a few times since then and things seem to be a little better than when i found out. i leave to go back to college in a week. and tonight she texts and says she wants to hang out some more because she still likes me and she could see us together down the road. my question is, should i give her the opportunity? i was absolutely crushed when i found out she had sex with another guy during a week where we spent 5 of 7 days together. but i like her soo much. do you think i should give her another chance? does she deserve another one?? thanks for all help.
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xPicturesOfYou3
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Well, she's not your girlfriend, so she can really chill with and have sex with whoever she wants. You guys technically aren't in a relationship, you're just hooking up friends. Give her another chance. Don't seem so uptight and stressed and mad about it cuz it might remind her of her boyfriend who hit her.
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nack
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If you honestly like her and would put ur whole heart into bein with her i say yes. give her a chance. but dont be to physical with her let her know what she did hurt u. but also let her kno that u still like her just as much but the trust is gone and u want to rebuild it
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Mikayla007
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I think you need to talk about it 1st, and then make your descion. try to talk to her about it, and I would say try, if you don't like where it is going break up. after all recjection always hurts
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If you give a damn, take me baby or leave me
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