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Sup, I'm in in need of help here.

I'm your average person, I go to college, I have a part-time job, I have nice girlfriend, I have friends and no social impairments. Of course there's the darker side of me that likes hentai in some occasions and my need for the weekly naruto/bleach are there too.

But this thread is not about me, it's about my little brother, we'll call him Marc. For about a year now, me and Marc, who's 14, are watching bleach and naruto together, every Wednesday and Friday I'd get the torrent files from DB and my laptop up with our 50" HD-TV and watch them on it.

But a few days ago when browsing the internet, my user suddenly logged out and said "blah blah contact shit support", I tired to log onto my little brothers user (on windows vista) and I knew his pass, I just guessed it. But when I fired up firefox and began to type my schools homepage into the address field, alot of sites like "www.hentai.com/sblah/h/naruto+hentai.html" came up, now that's just an example.

WTF? was my first thought, because after all, finding out your little brother are getting into hentai is kinda awkward. Anyway by the looks of it, he had visited A LOT of hentai sites, including /h/ and all the other +18 boards on 4chan as well, the thing is that I don't want to see all this stuff before he knows more about love and sex, he might get the wrong idea of what sex is about and fuck up at his first time. Now I figured I'd do him a favour and keep it from our parents, but I seriously wan to confront him with this, but I'm way too afraid that he'll become shy of me for the rest of our days if I do so...

I'm clueless, should I go say it? Or should I just let him continue it,

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do the right thing.

tell your parents.

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Well, lots of young guys watch porn, and i guess he's just curious about stuff.  If you really think this is a problem of his then confront him, if not, and you don't think it's that big of a deal, then don't.

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I think you should just tell him. The image and idea can stay in his head. You can just try to block it on his computer too.

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talk to HIMabout it


dont tell anyone, hell hate you!


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Quote: from Joke at 7:32 pm on Jan. 6, 2009

talk to HIMabout it

 
dont tell anyone, hell hate you!


he'll thank him when hes not a 30 year old nerd masturbating to cartoon porn.

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let your brother grow up
u swear u didnt do that shit when you were his age
i know i did

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... yeah, it's pretty awkward and I can understand you not being clueless as to what to do. I have a similarly aged sibling, and I'm in a similar place as you in life.

I think you should talk to him. What you say, obviously, is up to you. I suggest you tell him that you saw the things on his computer. Don't tell him anything about what you think about this just yet, but ask what he thinks about sex at this point, and his thoughts on what he's doing. After he starts the conversation, it will be easier for you to see what you need to say. Say something about how you don't want him to get the wrong idea about sex, then tell him whatever values your family has toward sex- whether it's important to your family to wait until marriage or until love or whatever.

Just make it a casual conversation, and I don't think he will shy away from you, it may bring you closer together.


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Quote: from xPicturesOfYou3 at 9:30 pm on Jan. 6, 2009

Well, lots of young guys watch porn, and i guess he's just curious about stuff. If you really think this is a problem of his then confront him, if not, and you don't think it's that big of a deal, then don't.

he obviously thinks its a big deal

I don't know how you would bring it up though...that's tough...

good luck

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