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Replies: 11 — Last Post Jan. 7 2:32am by nik1
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I have this boyfriend. And i have so much fun with him. he makes me so happy. I feel like i can tell him anything and I am so comftarable with him. Hes cute and soo nice to me. he treats me so good. and we never fight. like once in a GREAT while we fight. we get along so good. he tells me he loves me and that im beautiful everyday. And when he picks me up in his car its like "where do you want to go" and he takes me anywhere. I say the movies or ice skating and he takes me and pays. it seems perfect..

But i am still in love with my ex of 2 years. I cant help it but i am.  I know that me and my new boyfriend arnt going to last much longer and i am going to go back to my ex boyfriend sometime next month. Is it wrong to stay with my new one just to go places and have fun and have him buy me stuff  for the mean time or would you do the same?

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You sound like a gold digger.

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thats fucked up. get some dick before you break up though.

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XxKristinxX

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umm...you know its wrong.
why are you asking us?

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zombieman5


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its messed up, youre giving him false hope, if you know its not going to last just get it the fuck overwith.

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You are stupid, and therefore wrong.
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GeneCosta


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Don't be an asshole. Tell him about the situation. Yes, it is wrong.

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sammiroo


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I think it's wrong.

That is terrible.

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Jazzy Jeff


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You sound like you don't need to be dating anybody...along with your current boyfriend. He might need to grow some balls before he gets with another girl.

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RAGEMAN

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Don't be a gold digger.

You say you guys get along good, but there must be some lack of respect or love in there. Possibly because he gives you the choices like where to go and always pays for you and probably treats you more like a princess than an equal.

Either way, I don't blame you if you don't love him. Don't stay with him to reap the benefits of his misguided attempt to win you. Maybe even tell him what went wrong in the relationship.

Either way don't do that. Right now you haven't necessarily done any wrong yet. You tried the relationship and decided it's not going to work. If you take advantage of it you're just being low.

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I'll have your bf. Go back to your gay ex

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And for the love of whatever gods or values you have, if you do dump him, care to the relationship's end. It sounds like this is the worst possible situation: where one partner is hopelessly in love (him), and you aren't.

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nik1


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The quickest way to come to a conclusion about this or any other situation is to ask yourself.....would I want someone to do this to me?   It is obvious that your subconscious is telling you that it is not right or you wouldn't be asking the question.  You wouldn't like it if someone is playing with your feelings or being dishonest with you so don't do it to someone else.

Straight forward honesty is always the best method in dealing with anyone.  You are using him and that is not fair to someone that obviously has been good to you.  You are playing with his brain and to continue knowing what you are going to do is malicious.

An ex is an ex usually for a reason.  I suspect that you are going to going to be very disappointed when you get back with him and it is possible that you will get paid back for using the guy you are with now.  You deserve it.

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