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be alive for your kid.
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It'll be okay 
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Um... that sucks.
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the sins of the father go from kid to kid. You have to be the one to end it. Try and have a more positive outlook on life, it's the only way you're going to be happy. I know it's hard (believe me,i know it's hard) but things have to get worse before they can get better. People don't like to hang around a pessimist(a negative person). If you ever need to talk to someone you can add me on MSN messenger
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Thats a shame to hear about this, you need to try and focus on the positive outcome, and plan and think about what you're going to do in the future. Don't let this guy totally ruin your life, your better than that and what he did was immoral and very wrong. You shouldn't have to go through this alone, you should have the support of your friends and family, and even more so, some of the peers on here are always available to talk, like myself. So don't ever feel your on your own about this or anything else.
Steps you should try and take, try to become more positive, and plan ahead for what your next moral in life is going to be, Go out and enjoy yourself, and forget about the past, it's called a past for a reason. Try and relax, go out and meet plenty of new people who will openly treat you as a better friend than you've already had.
Good Luck with what you're planning to do, and if you ever need to talk to me, don't hesistate to drop me an email.
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Let me start by saying emotions can be all over the place when going through our teens years, even for a few years after, it's natural and nobody will judge you for it. Relationships and dating can be hard no matter what the circumstances, however getting pregnant and having it be a chemical pregnancy, for you to have to go through that (even with it being you didn't know at the time) dealing with it after must have been tough and your boyfriend is supposed to support you if that happens. When we hit hard times having the people we love walk away can feel almost traumatizing but it doesn't mean everyone will, does your family or close friends no about this? That guy doesn't sound like he's ready for a relationship anyway if he's spreading rumors about you, that's childish and immature, his new Girlfriend is going to be in for a shock when they both realise they aren't ready for the responsibilities that lie ahead of them. Talk to your family about how you are feeling, tell them how they make you feel, you should never suffer in silence it affects us later on in life. You have to stand up for yourself and not let them get you down (don't let them walk all over you) it's not fair on you, I'm sure you're a bright young girl who has a lot to offer the world, you just haven't matured yet. I know it's been years but things only get better if you help yourself, if you don't help yourself things in your life will never progress. Start letting your feelings out to your family, a friend or a doctor or something, because holding all this inside will only make things worse and then it really won't get better. Message me if you would like to talk.
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Quote: from Trashed at 12:15 pm on Jan. 1, 2009
 Let me start by saying emotions can be all over the place when going through our teens years, even for a few years after, it's natural and nobody will judge you for it. Relationships and dating can be hard no matter what the circumstances, however getting pregnant and having it be a chemical pregnancy, for you to have to go through that (even with it being you didn't know at the time) dealing with it after must have been tough and your boyfriend is supposed to support you if that happens. When we hit hard times having the people we love walk away can feel almost traumatizing but it doesn't mean everyone will, does your family or close friends no about this? That guy doesn't sound like he's ready for a relationship anyway if he's spreading rumors about you, that's childish and immature, his new Girlfriend is going to be in for a shock when they both realise they aren't ready for the responsibilities that lie ahead of them. Talk to your family about how you are feeling, tell them how they make you feel, you should never suffer in silence it affects us later on in life. You have to stand up for yourself and not let them get you down (don't let them walk all over you) it's not fair on you, I'm sure you're a bright young girl who has a lot to offer the world, you just haven't matured yet. I know it's been years but things only get better if you help yourself, if you don't help yourself things in your life will never progress. Start letting your feelings out to your family, a friend or a doctor or something, because holding all this inside will only make things worse and then it really won't get better. Message me if you would like to talk. 
he's 26 and he's been with this girlfriend for a longer time than he was with me... it was an open relationship deal.. and a huge mistake
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Well, things change, people move on from what they once were, it's just the way life is, and I know it's hard to deal with but it happens, and it's a sign that maybe you should move on too.
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