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Quote: from crimeinstereo at 4:37 pm on Jan. 2, 2009

Maybe you should both just stop?
My thoughts exactly.

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I'M NOT QUITTING.

I don't want him to quit either. Fuck that shit.

I just don't want him to die.

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show him all the things on the internet that clearly state these things can kill him

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UGH DUSTER?
That is honestly the worst shit to be doing.

You have to let him know that doing that shit is not ok, and you need to start setting an example for him.

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I don't think that's being hypocritical.  Worrying about your boyfriend because he's using drugs that are EXTREMELY risky is a valid concern.  Some drugs are a lot more dangerous than others; it's just how it is.  

As far as getting him to stop, I think the best thing you can do is try to make him understand that he's not only putting himself in danger with that stuff.  He's really making you worry about him.  If he understand the implications of doing Duster, I have noooooo clue why he would want to keep doing that.  I mean, that's really one of the stupidest 'drugs' to abuse.  Maybe get some of his friends to talk to him about it at well?  Anything to make him see that there are a lot of people really concerned about his drug use.


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Quote: from adriannaa at 1:40 pm on Jan. 2, 2009

Quote: from LucidAssassin at 1:40 pm on Jan. 2, 2009

Quote: from Kates04 at 1:37 pm on Jan. 2, 2009

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=air duster

  http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=triple+c%27s


 

 i see...ok inhalants smell gross so i dont understand how people can stand doing it a lot, and why would you take cough medicine to get high or drunk? its gross



It smells good...

its disgusting i cant stand the smell of sharpis

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It's a hard fact to get through. People won't hear what they don't want to hear.

You could always give him an ultimatum, but that often bites you in the ass..

The best you can do is tell him how you feel, about how you're insanely worried, and be there for him if he falls.

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It would be best if you both try to atleast stop and do other things. Maybe that will get him and you to stop?

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Quote: from greatescape11 at 2:41 pm on Jan. 2, 2009

As far as getting him to stop, I think the best thing you can do is try to make him understand that he's not only putting himself in danger with that stuff. He's really making you worry about him. If he understand the implications of doing Duster, I have noooooo clue why he would want to keep doing that. I mean, that's really one of the stupidest 'drugs' to abuse. Maybe get some of his friends to talk to him about it at well? Anything to make him see that there are a lot of people really concerned about his drug use.

He understands the implications of doing Duster. He actually sat and explained it to me after I screamed at him for it. Then last night he went out and did it again, then texted me saying how shitty he felt.

His friends aren't going to help. They do Duster too, and sometimes Triple C's along with him. They don't do it as frequently, but they still don't really know any real facts about drugs. I'm the one that keeps these kids from overdosing most of the time.

I think everyone else that has replied doesn't really get this. I have no desire to quit, and I have no desire for him to quit. We both love drugs and we love doing drugs together.

I'm just really scared of him using stupid drugs. The ones that are going to kill him. I guess I just need to keep saying that and if he doesn't listen I really can't live with that.

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Quote: from LucidAssassin at 1:44 pm on Jan. 2, 2009

Quote: from adriannaa at 1:40 pm on Jan. 2, 2009

Quote: from LucidAssassin at 1:40 pm on Jan. 2, 2009

Quote: from Kates04 at 1:37 pm on Jan. 2, 2009

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=air duster    

   http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=triple+c%27s


 

  i see...ok inhalants smell gross so i dont understand how people can stand doing it a lot, and why would you take cough medicine to get high or drunk? its gross


 
 It smells good...

its disgusting i cant stand the smell of sharpis




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Okay, you said you do other drugs, and you love alcohol. People can easily die from hard drugs, and from alcohol poisoning. It may not be as fast, but you will die from drugs if continually used.

I don't know what a Duster is. But all I can say is, instead of you both doing drugs together, and getting into dangerous situations, maybe use your love and power to quit drugs all together?

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Quote: from adriannaa at 1:47 pm on Jan. 2, 2009

Quote: from LucidAssassin at 1:44 pm on Jan. 2, 2009

Quote: from adriannaa at 1:40 pm on Jan. 2, 2009

Quote: from LucidAssassin at 1:40 pm on Jan. 2, 2009

Quote: from Kates04 at 1:37 pm on Jan. 2, 2009

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=air duster

  http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=triple+c%27s


 

  i see...ok inhalants smell gross so i dont understand how people can stand doing it a lot, and why would you take cough medicine to get high or drunk? its gross



  It smells good...

 

 its disgusting i cant stand the smell of sharpis



 

.....sarcasm?

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Quote: from LucidAssassin at 1:40 pm on Jan. 2, 2009

Quote: from Kates04 at 1:37 pm on Jan. 2, 2009

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=air duster  

 http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=triple+c%27s


i see...ok inhalants smell gross so i dont understand how people can stand doing it a lot, and why would you take cough medicine to get high or drunk? its gross


You don't smell it, you inhale it.

For the record, never do air duster. It can kill you, in a heartbeat.

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Quote: from Kates04 at 1:41 pm on Jan. 2, 2009

I'M NOT QUITTING.

I don't want him to quit either. Fuck that shit.

I just don't want him to die.


Haha, okay. Well, you both keep doing drugs. And when one of you dies, maybe the other will develop some sense.

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tell him to get his ass out of middle school and do some real drugs. Honestly, dusters and triple c's are for people who don't just get ahold of actual illegal drugs, and it's sad because the legit ones won't kill you as quickly as huffing shit.

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