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thisisrlywierd
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I don't think having sex with your new guy is going to help you get over your ex, only time will. The longer you are without your ex the better it will be your just not over it yet, but if ur ex does call I wouldn't get back with that haha
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Shell1993
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it's hard, but you have to focus on how horrbile your ex was to you.
you didnt deserve that.
at least your new boyf is treating you well :D
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hollie midgley
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ur ex sounds lyk a prick just 4get about him and get on with ur life bbe k xxx
thats wht everyone told me to do and it takes tym but u will get there
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2kewl4u2know
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Four months you say? Then it's understandable you have yet to get over, not only a long-term, 2 year relationship, but a relationship with your first love and sexual partner. That's a big, and very important relationship, even if it didn't turn out well. Now, I'm not saying you were wrong in breaking it off with him, because you weren't, but it is going to take longer than 4 months to get over him, and having sex with your boyfriend isn't necessarily going to make things easier. The only thing you can do is give it time. In all honestly though, you will probably always still care for him some. My older sister was in a similar relationship like you when she was young. She still wonders where he is every now and then, but she's now happily married to a man she loves more and they have two beautiful boys together. Now, I'm not saying this guy you're happy with now is the person you'll get married to, but it's just to help you understand the reality. The truth is, 4 months is a little fast to move on for such an important relationship. So, stay with this guy if you really like him, but don't rush yourself, it might make you just feel worse. Also, even when you are over this guy, there will be times when you might think back on him, but don't feel bad about that, it's natural. The important thing to remember is that you're with someone who really cares for you and treats you right.
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mbs55
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No offense, but I feel the need to hit you over the head with a hammer. He didn't let you have friends, you needed HIS permission to go places, he cheated on you not once, not twice, not thrice, but FOUR times, and on top of all of that, he physically abused you, yet you still love this prick? This sorry excuse for a guy should not be that hard to get over at ALL, and I don't care how long you were with him. You should just be relieved that you don't have to deal with his ass anymore and that you have found someone that loves you and actually cares about you. I don't get it. What's the dilemma here? Sorry if I was a bit blunt and/or harsh, but it's the truth. Post edited at 9:39 am on Jan. 2, 2009 by mbs55
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9:38 am on Jan. 2, 2009 | Joined: Dec. 2008 | Days Active: 195
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ballin23
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try and forget about your old bf he sounds like a douche
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lucky015
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Quote: from mbs55 at 6:38 am on Jan. 3, 2009
 No offense, but I feel the need to hit you over the head with a hammer. He didn't let you have friends, you needed HIS permission to go places, he cheated on you not once, not twice, not thrice, but FOUR times, and on top of all of that, he physically abused you, yet you still love this prick? This sorry excuse for a guy should not be that hard to get over at ALL, and I don't care how long you were with him. You should just be relieved that you don't have to deal with his ass anymore and that you have found someone that loves you and actually cares about you. I don't get it. What's the dilemma here? Sorry if I was a bit blunt and/or harsh, but it's the truth. 
Sounds like the she loved the ex was because he is a angry nasty asshole, and that fits the description of the bad guy attitude which girls can grow to love soo much, She loved him because he was an asshole, She both loved and hated him for the same reason... Im like the second guy, And im always hearing about guys treating girls like shit, If i was ever to see a guy treating a girl in public like he treated her i dont think i'd be able to stop myself from beating the shit out of him... No guy should treat a girl like shit, and if they do then they arent worth her talking to let alone her being with him, following his orders and making him happy...
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lucky015
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And for the record, I have a higher opinion of guys that go out and kill the guy their wife was cheating on them with, than guys who hit their wives or gf's... At least the former was part of an instinct, Hitting your wife or gf is simply to scare them into thinking that they will be hit again if they disobey their "Master" which is pretty much what they allow the guy to become...
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sammiroo
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Quote: from lalacakes at 8:49 am on Jan. 2, 2009
Quote: from sammiroo at 8:48 am on Jan. 2, 2009
Maybe you need closure with your ex before you have sex with your new boyfriend. Don't force yourself to do it before you're ready.
closure, what do you mean by that?
Well, I don't know if it's possible in your situation, but closure is basically talking everything over with your ex, or at the very least, telling him that you don't appreciate how he treated you. Something like that. For me, it was telling my ex that I don't regret our past relationship, and I did love him, but I'm glad things turned out the way they did.
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2:08 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 | Joined: Dec. 2008 | Days Active: 65
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