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justin1990rm
Connoisseur
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go ahead
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Stellar
Wealthy Hobo
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Stick to your guns.
------- "Would you choose water over wine? Hold the wheel and drive." Post Count +1
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1:12 am on Jan. 2, 2009 | Joined: May 2008 | Days Active: 109 Join to learn more about Stellar Missouri, United States | Straight Male | Posts: 3,672 | Points: 5,136
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necronomicon servant
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Go ahead and try it!
------- Who am I? What am I?
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beachgirl101
Lawn Care Specialist
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Chances are, he's not worth it. If he's trash, that doesn't mean you need to be trash too.
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blufindr
Asynchronous duality
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Don't get wasted. It's not good for you.
------- Two hearts, beating as one; Keeping time Until they are no longer Apart
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steve123411
Personal Assistant
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So you're pretty much saying that you're a controlling bitch? The guy gets together with his buddies and has a couple beer seems pretty normal to me? Unless there is more to the story and he is always out of control wasted.
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Neodymie
Soothsayer
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There's nothing wrong with drinking. That's a stupid reason to dump someone. Just drink in moderation.
------- " I don't mean to sound bitter, cold, or cruel, but I am, so that's how it comes out. " - Bill Hicks
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1:14 am on Jan. 2, 2009 | Joined: July 2008 | Days Active: 243 Join to learn more about Neodymie Nevada, United States | Straight Male | Posts: 6,976 | Points: 13,801
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Sector Corrupt
Omnipotent One
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I think both stances are a bit off. On the one hand, Drinking is bad if he's doing it too often and too much. On the other hand, it's unfair to completely expect him to go without. a happy moderate is a much better solution. If you're really uncomfortable with it though, explain it to him why you're uncomfortable and maybe he can give you some reassurance. If you'll never be comfortable with it, and he's willing to give it up for you that's fine, but realize that it might be too large a sacrifice and finding someone who shares the same values might be better for you.
------- Livewire Wifey: Katie :D Windows, For when you don't know any better. Mac, for when you think you do. Linux, for when you actually want to get something done.
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ariadne
Novice
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fuckk yea get wastedd!
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1:15 am on Jan. 2, 2009 | Joined: Jan. 2009 | Days Active: 3 Join to learn more about ariadne South Carolina, United States | Straight Female | Posts: 45 | Points: -922
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HeavenShallBurn
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He is drinking... it aint like he is popin Oxy, smokin crack, snortin coke and shootin up Heroin. SO deal with it, god, and have a drink, THEY ARE GREAT
------- Wow... You were hotter last night...
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Neodymie
Soothsayer
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But, he's not legal drinking age yet anyway :p 
Wow. You guys are 18. Close enough.
------- " I don't mean to sound bitter, cold, or cruel, but I am, so that's how it comes out. " - Bill Hicks
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1:17 am on Jan. 2, 2009 | Joined: July 2008 | Days Active: 243 Join to learn more about Neodymie Nevada, United States | Straight Male | Posts: 6,976 | Points: 13,801
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