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My boyfriend asked me if I loved him, and I said no. |
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My boyfriend went to this party last night and he got drunk, and the whole night he kept texting me that he loved me and he was sorry he was drunk. It was making me reallllllllly uncomfortable so I ignored the I love you part and told him I didn't care if he got drunk or not. I guess he didn't want that part to be ignored, so he texted me and asked me if I loved him. I told him no. I FEEL SO AWFUL.  And he tried to call me this morning but I ignored him and he texted me that we needed to talk about the fact that he loved me and I didn't love him back... I do not know what to do AT ALL. 
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danndivision
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miNx
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So you want to be with him, but you don't love him. that sounds kinda mean, and wrong. Why the hell date him, if your not in love with him.
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Miss Vanity
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Call him back and apologize
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We'll do some drugs and fall in love,
and get f*cked up while the world just shrugs,
with no thought logically, we're wondering the streets so aimlessly...
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J U S T
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His probably going to cry like a big baby. Dump him.
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mbs55
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Harsh...
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bosss
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there's nothing you can do. if you don't love him yet, you don't love him.. and if he's gonna give you shit about that you might wanna reconsider the relationship. love is a stroooong word and it takes time to fall in love with someone.
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sadnessness
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its ok, you cant be expected to just say "i love you" if you dont mean it
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PurpleRuth
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good. you were honest in that moment. tell him that.
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Shell1993
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do you really not love him, or do you just want to see how things so with him?
like do you think love is to strong a word to say if you'z havent been going out that long.
if so, just tell him that!
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major
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Honestly at that age I just said I love you back to avoid awful situations like that. I had pleasant enough relationships that fizzled out after about three months, and I don't have the crippling guilt!
But you can just explain to him that to you "i love you" is a huge step. You need to feel like he completes you, or that you'd die without him, or anything that comprises your definition of love. Explain to him that you care for him deeply, but you're not sure if you love him yet, and that's why you're with him, to see if he is someone you'd love. Post edited at 12:41 pm on Jan. 1, 2009 by major
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ilovethatbiotch
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happened to me and my bf. we broke up, but got back together. i finally told him i loved him a few months later.
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CheyBear
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Just tell him how you feel.
That you like him a lot, but you just can't love him this early on.
Or some shit like that.
And I'm just assuming it's early on in the relationship...
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GoodFairy13
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You were honest. Just call him and say your not in love with him yet.
You may fall in love at some point.
Its not a big deal really.
Just talk to him.
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In time, you'll see someone stare back.
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