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No one is pussy enough to even read that
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funny you'd never see a stickied thread say "a guide to dealing with overprotective or controlling boy/girlfriends.... they do it because they LOVE YOU!"
When parents act like control freaks to grown teenagers, it's not love, it's objectification
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mjinok2
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it wont work. my urges are had to resist now. i want to yell and curse and scream at the top of my lungs. they dont understand me cause im a teen and they were teens when dinosaurs roamed. my whole family hates me, and i was a total accident. to my dad's parents im a spawn of satan.
so thanx for tryin, but i dont think it will work for me.
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nixonlopez
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o so im new to this page and this really helped me alot ... it was nice of u to write all that... but i have one minor problem.... my parents are like hardcore christians and they say im different from the others so like im makes me thing they dont want me sosicalize with noone dats not christian ofcourse ived talked over wit them and their not so hard about it now..... but im abotu to be 18 years old in a couple days and their still with the over protection shit... i wanna go to college out of town and now ima have to go to a community college because thats in town ..... im gonna try the tolkin with them over and stuff like u adviced to see if they could figure out that theyr doing wrong of course i know they dont wanna leave me alone like most parents tell their kids to leave at 18 but you u know i gotta step up formyself make my own decisions and all because college is just going to feel like high school and in those years its where you gain your experience to go out and challange life once ur done i believe also my mom specially its completly intolerant meaning shes always fighting about how my room looks and all wots good for most people fo her is bad and i have a tedency to erupt cuz i cant stay quiate and when i try talking to them they say '' dont try to be the victim now...'' and that really bothers me becuase im trying to explaing them something a good way and im trying to find a solution for the problem........... i dont know what to do!!!!!!!
that is actually some good advice it works on some parents but not and it also depends on their mood. i know from experience i've done that tried it just all depends on the mood!!!!
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vicki martin
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This is a good idea cuz my mum is too overprotective and i am 17
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good luck
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benjaminj
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yah good advice i guess IF the part bout them loving you is true. in my case NOT
and my ___dads ansser to everyting i do wrong is to hit so yah nice love there yah showing dad
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My parents literally want me to get all A*s in my GCSEs and they expect me to do at least 3 hours of revision a day, sometimes more. I did it for about 6 weeks, some other things happened in my social life and I had a mental break down a few weeks ago, and since then they stopped.
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I consider my self lucky to have pretty strict parents...I see the other kids around my age doing whatever they want and just being jerks...And I am glad my parents never let me act like that...I would be ashamed of myself if I ever did.
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If they're "overprotective" or "controlling".. it's not a good thing. And it shows a real lack of sensitivity or willingness to communicate.
While the majority of controlling parents mean well, they're still not in the right. They still need a change of perspective. And just because they aren't horrible enough to make it into "abuse" doesn't meant that the children should tiptoe around it looking for ways to be "mature" instead of making their stand (not that making a stand does any good for most kids).
So yeah, most kids in that situation are pretty helpless, whether they're mature or not.
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Quote: from GoodFairy13 at 9:29 am on Jan. 1, 2009
Very good.
Shall be very helpful.
Your time spent doing this is appreciated.
:)
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this is good advice!
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Very good. 
