I started talking to her because she was depressed and she was in one of my classes last year. I felt bad for her, so I thought I would be the better person and talk to her, and tell her if she ever needs anything to let me know.

Basically, I was the only person to actually help her out during her hardships and be a friend for her while she needed the support.

Well now, she likes me more than a friend. I do not find her attractive at all, but I dont want to tell her that because she has issues with depression and confidence as it is.

-I've been getting out of the plans she's been trying to create by saying I have work. But that can only last for so long.

My question to you guys is, What Should I tell her to stop trying to include me in her plans?

(She wants to go clubbing with me this weekend, and I really don't want to go to with her.)

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Just tell her you don't want to go...?

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possibly from sex with your gf

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I HAVE. THE AGGRO

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If you tell her you only feel for her as a friend it's going to hurt, but please do it, if you don't her feelings are going to get much stronger and when you finally have to break things off it's going to be much worse than if you just get it over with now.

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You have just basically described what's going to happen. =)

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That being said, if she still doesn't get the message, get a friend to be your 'girlfriend' when she's around.

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Must I prove to you how good we are together?

Tell her your not interested. If your kind in saying this it shouldn't really hurt her confidence. Just say something like "I think I might have given you the wrong impression, I enjoy our friendship but am not really interested in anything more."

At least it works for me.