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lovemetwicetoday
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Not at all, your kids need a father just as much as they do a mother, and if he isn't going to be around most of their childhood, I'd say you're right in what you say.
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I could see why you wouldn't want to have kids yet. You'd be basically raising them by yourself while he is gone. I wouldn't call it selfish to wait, probably would work out better actually financially and emotionally. Of course this is not to say that those who do have kids before their other leaves are foolish, no. I think there is as good of a reason there as well. But no, I wouldn't call you selfish.
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I know he wants kids, and this will just come down to what he wants more. Does he want to be a father in the near future, or does he want to go into the military.
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AndWhenHeFalleth
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There's no way in hell I would. If I was going to deal with pregnancy, I'd need him to be there for me. I also wouldn't be comfortable putting myself in the position of possibly bringing up another fatherless child.
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He has decided not to go in, so it's not an issue.
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babybluebitch
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i would just in case he died his last name would go on
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I wouldn't want to raise a child without their father. He has brothers, his last name will carry on. I don't think it would be in the best interest of a child to be raised never knowing their father.
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MissPrixy07
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I don't think you're wrong. If I was in that position, I would probably do whatever he wanted, though. If he was going to fight a war and protect my country, I would want to make him happy at home. Even if that baby never met their father, you could still tell them about how amazing their father was, and it's not like he just up and left. I see where you're coming from, though, and that's also fine.
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Quote: from Glory at 8:58 am on Nov. 29, 2008
 I wouldn't want to raise a child without their father. He has brothers, his last name will carry on. I don't think it would be in the best interest of a child to be raised never knowing their father.
who cares about name
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