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How to run away without parents knowing
Replies: 16 — Last Post Nov. 30, 2008 7:57pm by nategroves24
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Quality Control Engineer 		Reply
I met a man a few months ago (on the internet).  He is from Egypt, 22, a college student.  I am 17, from the U.S., finishing high school this year.  I love this man more than anything.  We have been engaged for a couple months, but my parents don't approve.  We are both muslim, and do not believe in delaying marriages.  I'm sure that I want to marry this man - I trust him more than anyone.  We did plan to marry after I graduated, but I do not want to wait another half year.  I plan to go in December, over christmas break, WITHOUT my parents knowing.  I really don't want to come back either.

What can I do to make sure my parents don't find us?  Is it possible to just "disappear"?  My mother took my passport - I have the lost passport card - can I apply for a new one without her signature?  

She just took away my internet completely, and says it is for my safety.  She thinks muslims are dangerous and that I should even hang out with my muslim friends here.  I feel trapped and I need my freedom - I make my own decisions now, I am physically and emotionally an adult.  I've thought through this decision thoroughly, and I know that if for any reason this does not work, I have a way out (I have a friend in Egypt).  

So how do I keep this secret?  What is the best plan?  I need help, not advice on whether this is safe or right or not.  Thank you.  Alslam alykom.

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Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah.

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Grasshopper 		Reply
Get a Fake Passport.

Then fly out of Canada or Mexico.

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icecreamsandwich


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you're gonna get abducted

and trapped inside a pyramid

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Swami
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You have never met this man before and he's in Egypt? Why would you even put yourself in that situation? You haven't even known him for more than a year!

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I'll be wrapped around your finger.
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Rebecca li


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You're gonna get raped.

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Why don't you come over to Myspace
and you can Twitter
all over my Facebook.
*So she painted on a smile and took up with some clown.*
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Quote: from icecreamsandwich at 8:11 pm on Nov. 30, 2008
you're gonna get abducted

and trapped inside a pyramid


xD
And the inside of those pyramids are SMALL!!

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Why don't you come over to Myspace
and you can Twitter
all over my Facebook.
*So she painted on a smile and took up with some clown.*
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PrincesSita


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He probably wants the citizenship or hes gonna like kidnapp you. they can say anything just to get u to go.
I say listen to your mom.

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make.me.smile.=]
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Grasshopper 		Reply
Someone did this and they were on Dr. Phil they flew to Palestine.

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Grasshopper 		Reply
As she said No Advice she wants tips!

So all your Moralists and Good ideaists STFU.

As I said Fake Passport fly through Mexico or Canada, Mexico works much better though.

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SpM


Jedi Master
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Aren't Muslims meant to respect their parents, not lie to them and subvert their authority?
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Quality Control Engineer 		Reply
The man I love and my religion are non-negotiable.  Involving these, my parents' options do not matter to me.

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Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah.
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SpM


Jedi Master
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Yeah, kill the non-believers! KILL!

edit: Uh, Mods, that was meant in jest. I wouldn't dream of inciting someone to murder.

Post edited at 5:20 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 by SpM

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RememberTheName


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Oh man, I can't even tell if this post is really serious or not. You're 17, no matter how much you think you're emotionally an adult, you're not. There is no way this is going to work out well, THINK about what you're doing. Talk to someone, get a therapist, understand that wanting to do this is not healthy and will most likely ruin your life. Would it hurt to put this on the back burner for a bit until you're able to talk to someone? Getting an outsiders opinion about this whole thing would be a great idea before going through with it.

Post edited at 5:23 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 by RememberTheName

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SpM


Jedi Master
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By the way, how much do you actually know about Islam?
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Grasshopper 		Reply
Quote: from SpM at 5:26 pm on Nov. 30, 2008
By the way, how much do you actually know about Islam?

I was about to say.

Why Egypt out of all countries in the World.

Sharia is practiced there isnt it.

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