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Cutting and such
Replies: 15Last Post Nov. 30, 2008 10:38am by Rachel4ever1993
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Whats a good place to cut myself that noone will see?
i did the whole wrist thing and had to scrape a layer of skin off so it could heal and not look insane
or suggest a whole new way to hurt myself because im stuck
and im starting to hate being around people more
can i get tips on how to be social
im completely clueless with other people, im a nervous wreck and always come across as creepy
I hate being social but it has to be done...

oh and i dont want to hear ppls life stories i just want help

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Don't cut.

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Get some help.
You have massive insecurity's.
And thats not healthy.

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just stay quiet. but don't give the vibes that you are an anti social. just stay quiet enough for people to think you're still approachable

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please dont do it
you seem like you have some control left over it and if your looking for other solutions you dont need it
hold an ice cube or somethign or snap a rubberband on your wrist
if you can stop easily you really should

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Please stop. I've been down that road more than once. Not good. Just my advice.

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try wikipedia
seriously

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bwhahaha, you are asking us where your can harm yourself and be a dumb ass. I loled.

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im not going to not cut myself
im in love with it
i just cant not do it
so suggestions from cutters plz.

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stop!

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no.

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Self harming will not help your situation at all. Lots of people have social anxiety, or are just generally anti-social. That doesn't mean you should punish yourself because you can't do something that may come to other people easily.  

Self harming also won't solve anything. If you think about what you're doing, you are still in the same spot you were before, and you haven't accomplished anything.  

Cutting not only hurts you, but think about what others will think, and how it will effect them. Getting to the point where you feel you need to cover the damage you've done to yourself for others not to see is not a good thing, and it could easily hurt others, like family members, or good friends.  

The last thing you need to do is to build the courage to stop self harming. This is almost always the hardest step for people, which I know from first hand experience. Some people try the rubber band trick, where you snap a rubber band for quick pain. Although even that is bad, it is not nearly as damaging as cutting yourself, or worse.  

I hope this helped,
Peter

Post edited at 3:28 pm on Nov. 29, 2008 by ManiacPenguins

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Hey im not going to say i know exactly what you are going through but im kinda sure i can come pretty close... What i found out is that cutting may seem like its helping you with your problems for that exact moment you are cutting, but after, all you have to show for it is the cuts which look horrible and then you have the problems you had before plus worrying about the marks you have to hide as well as infections and bactria from not cleaning what you use..What i have realized is that there is a lot better ways to dealing with your problems than self harm...I substituted cutting for smoking pot, and i havent cut for over 6 months!! I know it may not be the best thing to do but you have fun and relax and your not hurting yourself anymore which feels so much better!! Good luck and hopefully you take my advice and try to stop!!! if you wanna talk more im always free to talk!! email me at lilazcay@yahoo.com! <br> Best of luck to you and i hope you start feeling better!! <br> Names cayleigh but you can call me cay

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I could stop cutting if I wanted to, but I dont
it makes me feel good
im not stupid enough to believe that it would ever solve a problem
I cut because I FEEL GOOD WHEN I  DO
and smokin pot would kill my braincells and fill my lungs with ash
id rather KILL myself than do that
srry if i sound bitchy, yall seem like generally nice ppl

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oh and ive done the whole rubber band thing
i felt like a pussy

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