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Having children an achievement?
Why do people value parents over other people?
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Quote: from mountainview at 5:56 pm on Nov. 29, 2008

Parents are negatively influencing society. Overpopulation anyone?  

I just don't get why we love these people so much?


Maybe because we like the fact that we are alive and are happy that other people get to receive that gift too?

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So? Be thankful to your own parents, not the whole of society?

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Quote: from mountainview at 6:00 pm on Nov. 29, 2008

So? Be thankful to your own parents, not the whole of society?
My parents aren't the only people to give others the gift of life.

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Not everyone can 'do it'. for many it is and achievement and i think it is a miracle every time someone is born

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I don't think that having a baby is necessarily an achievement- although the birth/pregnancy is definitely worth respect, I don't think that having a baby makes you successful

If you manage to raise the kid well to become a good person and a productive member of society,  I would consider you a successful parent. If you have a baby and have nothing to support it, have no ability to give it opportunities in life, and manage to ruin your life at the same time- not so successful and not much of an achievement


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I believe that having children is an achievement. A lot of people get pregnant, and don't even have their kids, so when someone actually follows through and does what they're supposed to do, it's pretty damn amazing. By the way, my daddy is a landscaper, and a parent. I don't see anyone putting me before him....

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Having a succesful child is an achievement and having a skilled trade isn't as big of an achievement because you're not taking care of a human life day in and day out. You go for 8-10 hours and get a break. Parents work all day and night. We never get a break. Work 24/7 and we'll give you more credit.

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I feel like I can kind of see where you're coming from. A few of my friends have kids, and it seems like people always want to be so nice to them, buy them things, take them out, etc. Suddenly everyone wants to be their friend and give them hugs. When someone finds out that so-and-so has a kid, suddenly I'm not so interesting, and all people want to talk about is children (or perhaps it's just that all PARENTS want to talk about is their children?).

At the same time though, I do think that raising a child successfully is the hardest job out there, definitely not something I am ready for. I think that, in a way, parents are really unrecognized for their hard work (after all, most children treat their parents like crap once they're over the age of 10).

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Quote: from mountainview at 4:56 am on Nov. 30, 2008

Parents are negatively influencing society. Overpopulation anyone?  

I just don't get why we love these people so much?


Neither do I. However, I do believe it takes a lot of work to raise children.

But I agree... Overpopulation is so rampant today because people either: don't know when to stop or believe its some kind of "achievement" to have children.

In reality, it is an "achievement" to have children, but only in terms of survival of species.. An evolutionary achievement, if you will.

But I believe that's beginning to have lesser value in humanity - especially from overpopulation.

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