i think there's a difference. ive only met a few people who have acted like they truly had a hatred for someone. i think you answered your own question, hatred is when you dwell on it and would actually wish something bad on them. i have old friends who i think about now and then, but i just dont give a shit about. theres only a certain amount of crap you can take before you detach yourself and feel no emotion towards them anymore. it's just like a stranger...would you give a shit if a stranger died? probably not in all honesty, because there isn't that connection.
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sometimes i find my head spinning.
not because of alcohol; but because of my life.
-lady gaga. ♥