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Abortion
Pro-Life or Pro-Choice?
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The mother knows the circumstances. That does not stop her from making the wrong choice.

The whole idea is that a fetus is a human being, therefore it has the same rights as the rest of us.

The exceptions, for a very basic example, would be "Abortion is illegal unless the girl was raped, or the pregnancy is a danger to the women's physical health." Not to mention through court, a judge has the authority to adapt to situations in a sensible, well thought out way. So, the judge would both know the circumstances, and be able to hand out exceptions.

A person is not subjective. The best colour in the world is subjective, a person is not. It looks like a person. It's going to be a walking, talking person. Anyway, lets assume it is not a person. What gives us the right to eliminate a human being, whether it is a "person" or not?

And it seems the other points are irrelevant, so no need to worry, then. :).

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Quote: from mikeyb at 3:53 am on April 22, 2009

The mother knows the circumstances. That does not stop her from making the wrong choice.

Why is there a right or wrong choice in this situation?


The whole idea is that a fetus is a human being, therefore it has the same rights as the rest of us.

So does the mother. The supposed rights of the fetus, doesn't override that of the mother, however.
She's the conscious one with the decision.


The exceptions, for a very basic example, would be "Abortion is illegal unless the girl was raped, or the pregnancy is a danger to the women's physical health." Not to mention through court, a judge has the authority to adapt to situations in a sensible, well thought out way. So, the judge would both know the circumstances, and be able to hand out exceptions.

And a rape victim's child is less of a person than a non-rape victim?
Double standards ftw... >_>
And judicial system would not accept an abortion case... They have other things to handle rather than something as trivial as that.


It looks like a person. It's going to be a walking, talking person.
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Anyway, lets assume it is not a person. What gives us the right to eliminate a human being, whether it is a "person" or not?

Jews and blacks weren't considered people. Do you really want to go there?

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I don't understand how in one breath you can say how a fetus is ALIVE and HUMAN and A LIFE and show mangled body parts and then say "well, it's OK if the woman was raped"

I'm prochoice in any situation, but this seems really hypocritical. If you really believe that this is a human being than why should it be killed because the mother was raped. It shows that even you do not fully believe that all pregnant women should be forced to give birth and that not all fetuses should be born- it can be OK to abort as long as a judge says so!

Then why is it not OK to abort if the WOMAN says so.

Oh, a PS if a woman has to lie about being raped to get an abortion she probably will. Do we want to give people a reason to lie about this VERY serious issue?


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Quote: from islandgirl at 4:04 am on April 22, 2009

I don't understand how in one breath you can say how a fetus is ALIVE and HUMAN and A LIFE and show mangled body parts and then say "well, it's OK if the woman was raped"  

I'm prochoice in any situation, but this seems really hypocritical.


What's even more hypocritical is that there have been many murders and abortion clinic bombings from the pro-life crowd.
Yay for life!

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Well, it depends whether you thinking ending a fetus' existence is a wrong decision or not. It is a human being, so you think it would have human rights.

The supposed rights? More like the rights it should have. The mother should not get the decision.

I think a rape victim should HAVE to keep the baby, but that is another argument, and I provided a basic example as stated, yes? And why shouldn't they handle abortion cases? They deal with issues over a $4 stolen toothpaste in the civil courts. The have judges who deal with civil cases. It is hardly trivial, anyway.

A baby is going to be a walking, talking, person. It isn't yet. But, why can't it be killed?

Jews and blacks weren't considered people. Fetuses aren't considered people. Just shows how wrong the law can be, and how we cannot trust it to define what a person is, yes?

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Quote: from mikeyb at 4:08 am on April 22, 2009

Well, it depends whether you thinking ending a fetus' existence is a wrong decision or not. It is a human being, so you think it would have human rights.

That's what YOU think. And what YOU think should influence YOUR decisions on what YOU do. Not to somebody else.


The supposed rights? More like the rights it should have. The mother should not get the decision.
That's completely cynical.


I think a rape victim should HAVE to keep the baby, but that is another argument, and I provided a basic example as stated, yes?
And the exception applies how now? It's called being hypocritical. It's either you want abortion or not. There's no exceptions.


And why shouldn't they handle abortion cases? They deal with issues over a $4 stolen toothpaste in the civil courts. The have judges who deal with civil cases. It is hardly trivial, anyway.
And they reject and postpone domestic cases regularly. This is a domestic issue.


A baby is going to be a walking, talking, person. It isn't yet. But, why can't it be killed?
Exactly. Why can't it?


Jews and blacks weren't considered people. Fetuses aren't considered people. Just shows how wrong the law can be, and how we cannot trust it to define what a person is, yes?
That's why I said a person is subjective.
Subjective arguments lead nowhere.
That concludes that argument.

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Meh, history repeats, and your argument is flawed.


Let's try this thinking out on other issues:

Supppose someone in 1850 said, "The question is not whether slavery is right or wrong, but, Who decides? The individual plantation owner, or the government? If you're opposed to slavery, then don't buy any slaves, but don't try to impose your morality on others. Slavery is a personal choice between a man and his slave-dealer." (By the way, this is exactly the argument that some supporters of slavery made.)

Or how about this: "The question is not whether rape is right or wrong, but, Who decides? The individual man, or the government? If you're opposed to rape, than don't rape anybody, but don't try to impose your morality on others. Rape is a personal choice between a man and his sex therapist."

Americans have a great tradition of individual freedom. But there's an old saying: "You have the freedom to swing your arm back and forth all you like, but your freedom ends where my nose begins." Freedom does not include the right to deliberately harm innocent people. We do not allow each man to decide for himself whether he thinks rape is acceptable, because the woman he might choose to rape has rights too. Likewise, we should not allow each woman to decide for herself whether abortion is acceptable, because the child she might choose to abort has rights too.


Same thing.
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Perhaps it is cynical, but does it matter?
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I am 100% against abortions, moving on.
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Just because it might get postponed, we shouldn't take it to court? Hm..
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Why can't it be killed? Because the law has said it is a person. And back to what you said, a person is subjective. If I'm allowed the choice to kill a baby in the womb? Why can't I kill it outside? I don't think it is wrong, that's what YOU think. And what YOU think should influence YOUR decisions on what YOU do. Not to me. See what I did there? You might think killing a baby is wrong, but I should be allowed. Because it's a choice, and you are anti-choice.

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Quote: from mikeyb at 4:22 am on April 22, 2009

Meh, history repeats, and your argument is flawed.

Same thing.



That's just like saying you're not going to allow a woman to think for herself. Does that sound right to you?
And you say this as if the woman's opinion is the only opinion that resulted in her actions.
Her family, friends, and others equally helped and gave sound reasoning too.
Having an outside source with no information on the situation with a shattered view on ethics deciding what's best for a child, is wrong.


Perhaps it is cynical, but does it matter?

Yes. It leaves you without a logical argument.


Just because it might get postponed, we shouldn't take it to court? Hm..
Missed the rejected part hmm?
Point is, at the amount of abortions every day, do you think the court would be willing to deal with every one of those cases PLUS the other cases they would deal with? Most likely not.


Why can't it be killed? Because the law has said it is a person.
Where?


And back to what you said, a person is subjective. If I'm allowed the choice to kill a baby in the womb? Why can't I kill it outside?
Because you can't get a legal abortion if the child is born. -_-

I don't think it is wrong, that's what YOU think. And what YOU think should influence YOUR decisions on what YOU do. Not to me. See what I did there?
Thanks for accepting my point.


You might think killing a baby is wrong, but I should be allowed. Because it's a choice, and you are anti-choice.
Poorly constructed argument..

Post edited at 1:36 am on April 22, 2009 by 420trendz

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Earlier it was stated that a woman who is pregnant is under emotional stress, correct? Well, would you want somebody like that making a decision which deals whether a fetus lives or dies? If you need to go to court to persuade the judge to let you get a divorce, this allows someone to both judge whether you are mentally fit to make a decision, and whether an abortion is a suitable choice in the matter.
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No it does not.
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Rejected? They wouldn't reject an abortion case >.> Now, person applies for abortion with reason and evidence, and then somebody decides to reject it or accept it. It would be quite easy to make a branch of people for this, such as referees for Disputes Tribunals.
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And it is not a poorly constructed argument, it is drawing a comparison between an abortion, and a "murder" the second after it is "legally" a human being. Not to mention is ties back to the quote I put forward. You're saying "The government can't make the choice whether it's right or wrong!" When it has done so previously, in circumstances which do not impact on you personally.


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Quote: from mikeyb at 4:46 am on April 22, 2009

Earlier it was stated that a woman who is pregnant is under emotional stress, correct? Well, would you want somebody like that making a decision which deals whether a fetus lives or dies?
Why not? We trust emotional people with all kinds of decisions. This is no different and a person can still think for themself. Right?
And as said earlier, there are other influences on her decision.
Would you trust what the government decides for you in any situation is the best one?
If you said yes, that's being naive.


If you need to go to court to persuade the judge to let you get a divorce, this allows someone to both judge whether you are mentally fit to make a decision, and whether an abortion is a suitable choice in the matter.
A court knows nothing of your situation. A person making a decision on a matter they know nothing about is foolish. They don't know what's the best decision given a situation.



Rejected? They wouldn't reject an abortion case >.> Now, person applies for abortion with reason and evidence, and then somebody decides to reject it or accept it. It would be quite easy to make a branch of people for this, such as referees for Disputes Tribunals.
So what you're saying is that you know nothing about the judicial branch?


And it is not a poorly constructed argument, it is drawing a comparison between an abortion, and a "murder" the second after it is "legally" a human being. Not to mention is ties back to the quote I put forward. You're saying "The government can't make the choice whether it's right or wrong!" When it has done so previously, in circumstances which do not impact on you personally.
The government has also made wrong decisions on issues too. Do you really trust the government like that?

And it's great how you bring up personal issues. This is a personal situation. Not a social issue.

The government can't tell you to leave your girlfriend because she cheated on you right? That's a personal issue.

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Nope. Anyway, there is a difference between 120 people we elect, who vote on issues independently; and an one emotionally unstable woman who has the power to kill a fetus.
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Now, a court who has been given the information like I stated would understand the situation, and then could allow abortions in extreme circumstances. The whole idea is that the woman has to be at risk, that isn't to hard to figure out, if given information.
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I do legal studies, I understand the hierarchy of the courts, and how the judicial branch of law works perfectly. Abortion, if it becomes issues, would become a branch of the district court, or just become part of another branch, i.e family court.
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The government can't tell me to leave my girlfriend, yes. But this is a social issue which branches into civil law. It is the right of the fetus vs the right of the mother.
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Quote: from mikeyb at 5:07 am on April 22, 2009

Nope. Anyway, there is a difference between 120 people we elect, who vote on issues independently; and an one emotionally unstable woman who has the power to kill a fetus.
What you have is 120 people who know nothing of the situation or the families involved and the situation at hand.
How many times must I say there's other influences in her decision.
And how can we assume she's emotionally unstable?


Now, a court who has been given the information like I stated would understand the situation, and then could allow abortions in extreme circumstances. The whole idea is that the woman has to be at risk, that isn't to hard to figure out, if given information.
It's either you have abortions or you don't man. One fetus is not less valuable than another. One situation doesn't outweigh another.
 

The government can't tell me to leave my girlfriend, yes. But this is a social issue which branches into civil law. It is the right of the fetus vs the right of the mother.
Agreed. And since you believe in fetal rights > reproductive rights and I do not, we must declare an impasse.

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120 people who come from similar situations, not to mention there are local representatives for your region. Anyway, so she's not emotionally unstable then, why should she kill off the fetus? She can apply for adoption, or put it in a foster home. It goes back to the original argument of the fetus being a human being, and being entitled to the same rights as all other human beings. Because the law in unreliable, and keeps changing it's mind on what is human etc etc. Mind you, that point will keep chasing around in a circle too.
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Not really. If the fetus is having a negative impact on the woman, i.e the birth will result in her death, then it is starting to infringe on the rights of the mother. I think we can agree on that.
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Indeed.

So what, is it a draw? :/



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Quote: from mikeyb at 5:23 am on April 22, 2009

120 people who come from similar situations, not to mention there are local representatives for your region. Anyway, so she's not emotionally unstable then, why should she kill off the fetus? She can apply for adoption, or put it in a foster home. It goes back to the original argument of the fetus being a human being, and being entitled to the same rights as all other human beings. Because the law in unreliable, and keeps changing it's mind on what is human etc etc. Mind you, that point will keep chasing around in a circle too.
Every situation is different.
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Not really. If the fetus is having a negative impact on the woman, i.e the birth will result in her death, then it is starting to infringe on the rights of the mother. I think we can agree on that.
This equates to a human being less than another. Again hypocritical.
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So what, is it a draw? :/

Sure.
It's not going nowhere.

And I'm not going to spend any more time on the subject to prove futile.

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Then why do we have laws in the first place?
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Meh, likewise, hopefully.

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