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Abortion
Pro-Life or Pro-Choice?
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Quote: from katyduck at 7:10 am on Nov. 1, 2005

Quote: from xiheartyoux at 8:51 pm on Oct. 30, 2005

It is officially unconstitutional to ban abortion because it violates a womans personal right to freedom of choice. Abortion is a good thing under certain circumstances.

Abortion is illegal here. Under all circumstances. It works out grand. Seems to me that once a society gets used to something being legal then people get more lax about the issue, "if it's legal then it must be okay". Over here it's illegal and an alarmingly high percentage of people are Pro-Life; "it's obviously wrong, why else would it be illegal?".

Anyway, point in hand: Women over here survive perfectly fine without abortion, and in no way are any of their fundamental human rights being infringed upon.



You have to realize that ireland is WAYYYY smaller than the US as a whole. It is much easier to govern a small group of people. Ireland also,most likely, doesn't have nearly as much rape cases. They also, most likely, have a much smaller divorce rate and birth rate.

Now I am saying all this because it seems as though it would be true,I do not have any factual evidence to support my claims.


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Quote: from katyduck at 10:10 am on Nov. 1, 2005

Quote: from xiheartyoux at 8:51 pm on Oct. 30, 2005

It is officially unconstitutional to ban abortion because it violates a womans personal right to freedom of choice. Abortion is a good thing under certain circumstances.
 

Abortion is illegal here. Under all circumstances. It works out grand. Seems to me that once a society gets used to something being legal then people get more lax about the issue, "if it's legal then it must be okay". Over here it's illegal and an alarmingly high percentage of people are Pro-Life; "it's obviously wrong, why else would it be illegal?".  

Anyway, point in hand: Women over here survive perfectly fine without abortion, and in no way are any of their fundamental human rights being infringed upon.


So if a woman were raped over in Ireland and became pregnant, then she would be forced to carry the baby for 9 months and would not be allowed to abort the baby if she did not want to carry the child? THAT IS WRONG!!! I hope whomever came up with these laws pays all the Doctor bills, Hospital bills, and Gyno/Obgyn bills that these rape victims have to pay since they are "forced" to carry the baby. I mean, being forced against your will to have sex is ONE thing, but having to be forced to carry your rapists baby for the next 9 months then giving birth and going through all that pain is a whole damn different thing! I think they need to seriously consider changing the laws!
   I have been raped twice before in the past, when I was 15 years old, I became pregnant due to a rape, but I wound up having a miscarriage because of not eating, depression, and not being able to sleep much at night, so I M/C about a month into the pregnancy, my parents never found out anything, and they never will either.  I was raped again on my 18th Birthday, and if I were to become pregnant again, I sure as HELL would NOT carry that baby if I became pregnant from a rape, I would abort the baby as soon as I found out I was even pregnant, because their would be no way in HELL I would spend the next 9 months carrying a baby that was not conceived from love, but hate, and I would have no love for that baby when I gave birth to it, because everytime I saw that baby, I would see the guy that raped me on the babies face and would reject it and not love it. I think alot of people would agree with me.

(Edited by samantha123 at 7:24 pm on Nov. 1, 2005)

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Pro-life all the way baby

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Quote: from ZERO AE at 9:39 am on Oct. 31, 2005

hey, i think it should be your choice if you want to have an abortion.  as long as im not watching it.

I don't think women should get a choice. I think they should have to have an abortion if the government says so. This way there can be a committee decide if someone should have to have an abortion. The more abortions the lower the population and the more resources for everyone else.

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When I was raped at 15, and became pregnant because of it, I was going to abort the baby.... no way in hell was I going to carry a baby that was concieved from hate and violence for 9 months and then have to give birth and go through the pain of childbirth.
   I never got an abortion because I had a misscarriage.

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Quote: from laylow at 1:46 am on Oct. 30, 2005

if you've been raped its not the babies fault dont kill it.
Whoaaaa excuse me here for one second..... Males really have no say so as when a woman gets raped and becomes pregnant. If you were a woman, and your bf, husband, whatever raped you, and you became pregnant, would you SERIOUSLY want to carry on a pregnancy for 9 months and everyday looking at your stomach and knowing WHY you are pregnant and knowing exactly how your baby was concieved? I do not think so! I was going to get an abortion when I was 15 because I was raped and became pregnant, and at 15 I think I would have had my parents permission because they would have agreed with me, but I had a misscarriage instead. No woman in her right mind would want to carry on a pregnancy after being raped, because everyday you look into the mirror and see that baby growing inside of you is going to haunt you, and believe me, I know how it feels personally.


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pro choice because it should be up to god or government to make that decision, why should u have your rights taken away? Its bullshit,

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i would never have an abortion i feel like its wrong and i know i would hate myself for the rest of my life if i did have one i feel like if im old enough to have sex then im old enough to take responsibilty for a baby but i cant judge other people for it i would never hate on a person or judge them for chooseing to have an abortion everybody has to make there own desicions and live with them

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Quote: from Energizer Rabit at 8:34 pm on Nov. 1, 2005

Quote: from ZERO AE at 9:39 am on Oct. 31, 2005

hey, i think it should be your choice if you want to have an abortion.  as long as im not watching it.

I don't think women should get a choice. I think they should have to have an abortion if the government says so. This way there can be a committee decide if someone should have to have an abortion. The more abortions the lower the population and the more resources for everyone else.


Out of curiousity, do you think that decisions pertaining to your body should be made by a committee, or does this only apply to women?


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Pro-Choice. People who get abortions and use it as a substitute for birth control piss me off, but in so many cases abortion is neccesary.

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Quote: from audrey820 at 7:46 pm on Oct. 19, 2005

I'm a bit of both, I guess.  I support abortion when the woman has been raped or going through with the pregnancy would kill her.  Otherwise I am pro life.

my exact feelings as well. hmmmm choices.choices are what you made to get you pregnant-obviously excluding some situations. you already made your choice so i dont think you have the right to make another one, another bad one at that. although once i saw a bumper sticker that said "keep your laws off my body" which i liked simply for the fact that you know that mainly men are the ones making the decision for us which is just ludicrous. and to the people that said its not the babys fault you got raped: thats certainly a true statement but its not the girls either. i recently got raped and i was terrified that i was pregnant, etc because i knew that i wouldnt have the heart to abort the baby. i would have to live the rest of my life dwelling on this one awful thing that happened and i would never be able to move on. that would have ruined my life.

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Quote: from Energizer Rabit at 8:29 pm on Nov. 1, 2005

Quote: from Teneille at 6:55 pm on Oct. 30, 2005

Quote: from Energizer Rabit at 3:23 pm on Oct. 30, 2005

Quote: from Teneille at 8:35 pm on Oct. 28, 2005

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People do have a choice. If they don't want to have a child they shouldn't have sex.      
    

   

   When people say things like the above quote, it makes me think that they dont quite grasp the situation.  I could be wrong, however, but the reason 'if you dont want a child, dont have sex' is, to put it rather bluntly, stupid.    

   Sex is something that all species do, in one way or another, and something that has always been done.    
   Because it is part of life, it has become a general necessity for the majority of the population.  It is only human-invented beliefs that stop people having sex in the streets.    

   It is part of human nature to want sex.    

   But in humans, the reasons for people having sex has evolved.  It is no longer something that needs to be done to keep the population thriving.  It is something that is done, to keep relationships alive, something that is done for money..There are all kinds of reasons why people have sex in this day and age, and having sex to have a child doesnt appear to be the main reason.    

   Also, when people mention things like birth control should be used when people have sex.  Well of course it SHOULD be used.  But whether it IS used or not, it still isnt 100% effective.  And if it is used, and it fails, are the pro-lifers willing to let someone who obviously doesnt want a baby, have one anyway?    

   Also, when someone is pro-life, do they say that based on what THEY would do, or what is best for the general population of woman who are pregnant and dont want to be?  Do they realise that from the minute of conception, the baby is unwanted? Do they KNOW themselves what it is like to feel UNWANTED?    

   This is my opinion, and as always, I reserve the right to change it, but it would have to take something pretty big to do that.


 

  So people don't have a choice of wether or not they should have sex?


 

 You didn't read what I said.  There are words in there, like "general" and "majority".  This means that certain things were taken into account.  E.g. Religious beliefs.  There is always going to be abstinence, but this isnt about Nuns and people who have had terrible experiences with sex.  It is (the statement I made) about the general population of those who are old enough to be able to have sex and actually want it.  (So that means, in my opinion, those who want the closeness of another human being in a way that sex provides (for whatever reason), those who have been through puberty and understand what is going on).  

 Analyze this is you want, pull it to pieces if you feel the need, but right now I dont care for that.  I think the general idea is pretty obvious.


You didn't answer my question. Do people, or do people not have the choice to have sex? Because if it isn't a choice, and we can't choose wether we have sex or not, then the whole idea of rape is either completely out the window, or it happens everytime anyone has sex. Take your pick.


I DID answer your question.  But still you show no capacity for being able to read.  You are taking this on the principle that you can either choose to have sex or not choose to have sex.

And right here, I back up my claim that you can't read (or, actually, understand) a single word said-

To have sex is something that is biologically built in to all of us.  Some people take abstinance to extreme measures by remaining virgins their entire lives.  An example would be a nun, right?

But that is something they consciously do, to remain free from temptation, they hide away.

The majority of the population however, are not nuns.  And because the ultimate reason for people having sexual organs in the first place was to ensure the survival of the species, people have a natural instinct for SEXUAL INTERCOURSE.

Is this making sense?

So basically everyone is born to have sex, but societies' view has changed, therefore the reasons WHY people have sex have changed (for the most part).

And now sex is often about keeping a relationship alive, showing love for another person, lots of reasons.

And if the reasons people have sex have changed (and no, I'm not talking about those who specifically have sex to have a child) then that means it has become acceptable to have sex without expecting a child to be produced.

AND if an unwanted child is produced, then there becomes a problem.

So.  For people like yourself who are stuck somewhere between caveman times and today, I feel in my own opinion that you are looking at this on such a superficial level.

But I already basically said that in a previous post.  Blah.  Do you get it now?
Religion plays a major part in the idea that abortions should be declared illegal, as well.

So, tell me better reasons then the absolutely waste-of-my-time idea that you shouldnt have sex if you dont want a baby.  Maybe actually do some thinking on the subject first.  That could be an idea!



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I am compleatly pro life, unless it would kill the mother if a women gets raped and can't handle it then give the child up for adoption there are a lot of people who would love that baby. Plus for all the pro choice people, remember, by killing that baby you end that child's live, that child's choices.

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Quote: from Teneille at 1:17 pm on Nov. 4, 2005

I DID answer your question.  But still you show no capacity for being able to read.  You are taking this on the principle that you can either choose to have sex or not choose to have sex.

And right here, I back up my claim that you can't read (or, actually, understand) a single word said-

To have sex is something that is biologically built in to all of us.  Some people take abstinance to extreme measures by remaining virgins their entire lives.  An example would be a nun, right?

But that is something they consciously do, to remain free from temptation, they hide away.

The majority of the population however, are not nuns.  And because the ultimate reason for people having sexual organs in the first place was to ensure the survival of the species, people have a natural instinct for SEXUAL INTERCOURSE.

Is this making sense?

So basically everyone is born to have sex, but societies' view has changed, therefore the reasons WHY people have sex have changed (for the most part).

And now sex is often about keeping a relationship alive, showing love for another person, lots of reasons.

And if the reasons people have sex have changed (and no, I'm not talking about those who specifically have sex to have a child) then that means it has become acceptable to have sex without expecting a child to be produced.

AND if an unwanted child is produced, then there becomes a problem.

So.  For people like yourself who are stuck somewhere between caveman times and today, I feel in my own opinion that you are looking at this on such a superficial level.

But I already basically said that in a previous post.  Blah.  Do you get it now?
Religion plays a major part in the idea that abortions should be declared illegal, as well.

So, tell me better reasons then the absolutely waste-of-my-time idea that you shouldnt have sex if you dont want a baby.  Maybe actually do some thinking on the subject first.  That could be an idea!

 


You are still avoiding my question. But you still have answered it by your comments that some people become nuns, and don't have sex at all there entire live.

2nd your logic is flawed. You use biology to describe the reason why someone has no choice in who/when/if they have sex. And yet you use society to describe why they have sex. Do you realize that your arguements cancel each other out?

First off, sexual organs are ment to be used to create a baby. The sex is just the process of those organs combining in order to create the baby.

Society is what changes the issue, you are correct. And you are correct about the change of the role of sex. That is why people should be more responsible, and should take responsibility for their action. They shouldn't be having sex with someone they wouldn't stay with in the event that they get pregnant, and they shouldn't be having sex if they aren't not ready to have the baby if they do get pregnant.

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