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Flat-chested Females
Is it a turnoff?
Replies: 227Last Post Nov. 4 8:07pm by johnnie
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No 96 52%
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to sum it up

-Most guys do put looks before personality. Looks is what attracts and personality is what keeps us. A girl needs to have both not just one. Most won't admit it though because girls like you make them feel guilty about what comes naturally to us.

Keywords there are MOST and GUYS. Your NOT a guy so you can't understand how we think. MOST guys think the same way.


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Quote: from CMG1987 at 11:37 pm on Oct. 25, 2005

Quote: from Spirit at 5:08 pm on Oct. 25, 2005

Is there a reason you bumped your topic?

 yeah.  The post above you.


How many times do you have to say that in this topic to keep your self confidence up then?

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Quote: from Spirit at 5:48 pm on Oct. 25, 2005

Quote: from CMG1987 at 11:37 pm on Oct. 25, 2005

Quote: from Spirit at 5:08 pm on Oct. 25, 2005

Is there a reason you bumped your topic?
 

  yeah.  The post above you.


How many times do you have to say that in this topic to keep your self confidence up then?


That post, I only posted once in this topic.

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Hey listen, CMG1987, I completely understand what you're saying. And Ofcourse not. Small breasts definitely do not turn me off. I'm not going to lie to you though; large breasts simply makes a girl look a bit more appealing......

BUT

There is SOOO much more to relationships that just breasts. Trust me. My last girl friend had small breasts, and she would always become selfconcious about it (even though I told her that I didnt care). She'd go as far as to wear a sweater/jacket everyday to school, just to cover up the fact that she had small breasts...... I honestly dont care that much about breasts. Stop worrying. I wouldnt love the girl any less, and there are other aspects that are significantly more important (ex: face, personality).

Dont worry about it!


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I think breasts are attractive, but I wouldn't think any less of a girl who was flat chested.  To me, it's just as unimportant as someones hair colour, generally I prefer guys with darker hair, but I've liked quite a few with fair hair and there are many people that prefer fair hair.  
And people are "shallow", it's just in our nature.  Maybe it does suck that the hott guy in my french glass isn't interested in me because I'm not stickkk thin and blonde, but if that's what he finds attractive, then obviously we're not suited and are better off remaining friends.  I wouldn't want someone to date me just because they thought I was a nice person, I'd want them to find me attractive aswell and visa-versa, I wouldn't date someone just because they have an amazing personality, they'd have to be attractive to me, hehe, it has to all come as a complete package.  Sure, you can overlook some things, but ultimately if your'e going to have a successful relationship you have to be like your partners personality and find them attractive, it's not being shallow, it's just natural.  Some guys won't care about your breast size but some guys just won't be attracted to flat chested women, don't hate them for it or try to change them, just accept it.

(Edited by Hysteria at 1:46 am on Oct. 26, 2005)

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omgosh.  I was so happy this topic had died earlier...why's it back.  arg.

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Quote: from MzBabiiPrinzess at 3:55 am on Oct. 26, 2005

omgosh.  I was so happy this topic had died earlier...why's it back.  arg.

Because little miss no boobs decided after 4 days of no one posting that she'd update us by saying some guys are attracted to a flat chest

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omg, this has been one long read!
i'm a girl and even i would say that MOST *note i say most and not all before you go saying 'not all guys find it a turn off' or what ever* but MOST guys do go for looks first and then the personality.  No one is saying that just because you flat-chested that every guy in the whole god damn world is going to think that is a turn off, but most probably would do start with. If a guy was really into a girl with no boobs, then yeah he probably would take the time to get to know her, but if you go walking down the street, chances are, that that female would have to have one stunning body and a pretty face/smile/hair etc for him to actually notice her!
I'm not saying that all guys are like that, but it's kinda common sense that the majority of guys do go, 'wow, look at that chick' before getting to know her.
Think this topic has kinda got a tad out of hand, and you just need to let it rest, you seem to know that there are guys out there that don't care about size and appearance so why not just drop it.  Everyone has brought up very valid points and opinions and at the end of the day you were asking if it was seen as a turn off, if some one didn't give you the answer you were looking for, you try to make them seem wrong. Thats my view any way, take it how you wish...

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Quote: from Spirit at 2:51 pm on Oct. 26, 2005

Quote: from MzBabiiPrinzess at 3:55 am on Oct. 26, 2005

omgosh.  I was so happy this topic had died earlier...why's it back.  arg.

Because little miss no boobs decided after 4 days of no one posting that she'd update us by saying some guys are attracted to a flat chest



Haha =)

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Quote: from frank112916 at 2:56 pm on Oct. 22, 2005


 

Fact of the matter is - not having breasts DOES make you less attractive.
 

  Says you.  


 

Says your silly little poll. Attractive by definition is  
 


Actually from a statistical standpoint all that poll showed if anything, is that more men/boys found flat-chested NOT to be a turn-off than a turn-off. It certainly did not demonstrate with any sigificance that ALL men or boys found flat-chested females to be a turn-off. In fact, judging from that very poll 53% of the respondents (the majority of them males) found flat-chested females NOT to be a turn-off, whereas only 29% (again many of them males) found them to BE a turn-off. Now another poll should be made to ascertain whether males do find flat-chested females actually attractive. This poll has not yet been made unless I am mistaken....

(Edited by Laurence at 3:28 pm on Oct. 26, 2005)

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boobs are boobs...theyre fun no matter what.my girlfriend is a 42D but if they were small id still infeltrate them

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Quote: from Laurence at 3:25 pm on Oct. 26, 2005

Quote: from frank112916 at 2:56 pm on Oct. 22, 2005



Fact of the matter is - not having breasts DOES make you less attractive.
 

  Says you.  


 

Says your silly little poll. Attractive by definition is  
 


Actually from a statistical standpoint all that poll showed if anything, is that more men/boys found flat-chested NOT to be a turn-off than a turn-off. It certainly did not demonstrate with any sigificance that ALL men or boys found flat-chested females to be a turn-off. In fact, judging from that very poll 53% of the respondents (the majority of them males) found flat-chested females NOT to be a turn-off, whereas only 29% (again many of them males) found them to BE a turn-off. Now another poll should be made to ascertain whether males do find flat-chested females actually attractive. This poll has not yet been made unless I am mistaken....

(Edited by Laurence at 3:28 pm on Oct. 26, 2005)


Arg...why'd you give her suggestions!!  rawr.

Plus this poll is kinda messed coz lotsa guys thought flat-chested=small-chested.

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Quote: from Spirit at 2:51 pm on Oct. 26, 2005

Quote: from MzBabiiPrinzess at 3:55 am on Oct. 26, 2005

omgosh.  I was so happy this topic had died earlier...why's it back.  arg.

Because little miss no boobs decided after 4 days of no one posting that she'd update us by saying some guys are attracted to a flat chest


Thats a horrible thing to say.  Maybe she hasn't found the answer she's looking for, and for that reason tried to resurect her topic.

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Quote: from Spirit at 8:51 am on Oct. 26, 2005

Quote: from MzBabiiPrinzess at 3:55 am on Oct. 26, 2005

omgosh.  I was so happy this topic had died earlier...why's it back.  arg.

Because little miss no boobs decided after 4 days of no one posting that she'd update us by saying some guys are attracted to a flat chest


Grow up, honestly.

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lol to me flat chested babes rock!!!!   smaller the better!!! (bra size that is..)  if it fits in the mouth keep it!

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