think of it this way:
it's who you are.  if you're that positive about your sexuality at age fourteen, i don't see anything wrong with having a girlfriend.  even if you weren't positive, there shouldn't be a problem because you are who you are, and really, nobody should interfere with that.

i know you're afraid that people are going to think of you differently, and that's a scary thought.  the truth is, some people probably will.  keep in mind, though, that there isn't much you can do about it other than roll with the punches.  i went through the same thing, and know how difficult a process it is to go through.  you'll get through it though.

if you ever need to talk to anyone, pm me.  i'm all ears.

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ôte maintenant    tes souliers
et chausse à ton   pied quelques pelotes de nuées
car ici désormais   est la demeure d'un ciel

You wont be taken seriously because you are still a child everyone will think its a phrase and it probably is.

Keep it a secret until your about 18 or 19.

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A person shouldn't have a boyfriend or girlfriend at your age.

You wont be taken seriously because you are still a child everyone will think its a phrase and it probably is.

Keep it a secret until your about 18 or 19.

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