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Tonight I have my first date with my boyfriend. It's my first ever date with anyone.

I feel so nervous. My stomach is full of butterflies.

I just have all these "thoughts" running through my head:
-what if I'm too shy to react properly to him?
-what happens if we kiss and I'm a rubbish kisser?
-how do I know the right time to hold hands when we walk along the beach?
-what happens if we do break the "no sex on the first date" rule?

I guess it's normal to feel these nerves?

Post edited at 1:36 am on July 4, 2009 by DannyBoi

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Yes that it is.

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it's okay if you fuck him. everyone does that

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make sure he doesnt have aids before ya'll have sex. and wear a condom if your the giver cause gays tend to have aids

goodluck


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it will b fine dude just relax :D and  good luck

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I very much doubt you'll have sex on the first date.

Plus I'd avoid holding hands, it's gonna be boiling and clammyness is SO unsexy.

And seriously, I'm sure he'd be just as nervous as you are, unless he was a player and has been on thousands of dates.

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Quote: from mem18 at 9:38 am on July 4, 2009

make sure he doesnt have aids before ya'll have sex. and wear a condom if your the giver cause gays tend to have aids

goodluck


Thanks for the luck.

But there are more straights with AIDS than gays, that's just a nasty stereotype.

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Im sure everything will work out fine, dont worry so much and just relax.

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Just chill, i'm sure everything will be fine! Have fun and tell us how it went. Good luck :)

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Just chill out! You will know when its the right time for all of the above and things will go great just dont think about it and go with the flow be optimistic!

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You will be fine HOWEVER
Don't break the sex rule, it's not a good idea in my opinion wait that one out.
You will be fine, I know you are nervous however think it's it part of the fun of it.
The kiss well sometimes it's down to nerves so I'm sure he will understand as I'm guessing you will have spoken to him about these things.

Try and relax, you are going to have a fab night and I expect to hear how it goes

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Quote: from DannyBoi at 1:40 am on July 4, 2009

Quote: from mem18 at 9:38 am on July 4, 2009

make sure he doesnt have aids before ya'll have sex. and wear a condom if your the giver cause gays tend to have aids  

 goodluck


Thanks for the luck.

But there are more straights with AIDS than gays, that's just a nasty stereotype.


Correct me if i'm wrong, but wouldn't there be more straights than gays anyway?

I'm not making any stereotypes, but the ratio may be higher. IDK really.

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Just chill out, take it slowly and everything will work out fine. First kisses are really shit but you can work on them with a little practise. That is always fun. Things work out naturally, there is no point in worrying. Just take it one step at a time :)

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Yeah it's normal hun, just got with whatever happens.

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just go with the flow :] but dont EVER let a guy make you do anything you dont want to. good luck!

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