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Turning a guy down. How to do it?
Replies: 19 — Last Post July 3 8:44pm by SimplisticComplexity
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Swami
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Im going on a date later on today, i dont mind going and all (he is paying).

But i have to tell him that im not interested in him in the best possible way, because i like hanging around with him (he is just yuk to look at).

How should i say it?

Im not interested in a relationship right now?Im not looking for anything serious? I dont want a guy in my life at the moment? I want to live for myself?

What can i say to be nice about it at the same time?

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You probably shouldn't tell him "You're yuk to look at."

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Chasey


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start conversation asking him about his past relationships and stuff
then sort of be all like "yeah i dated so and so but now i'm not interested in a relationship"

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woodsy93


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Just straight up say, "Bitch, yous ugly!"
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Swami
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Quote: from Chasey at 1:19 pm on July 3, 2009
start conversation asking him about his past relationships and stuff
then sort of be all like "yeah i dated so and so but now i'm not interested in a relationship"

He knows my ex, maybe i can use that as an excuse to "hate" men  

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Chasey


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tell him youre a lesbian

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JamesBrauman


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Quote: from Chasey at 5:24 am on July 3, 2009
tell him youre a lesbian

then she has to follow through

dont forget to record!

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Quote: from JamesBrauman at 1:35 pm on July 3, 2009
Quote: from Chasey at 5:24 am on July 3, 2009
tell him youre a lesbian

then she has to follow through

dont forget to record!


I done that before, didnt stop the guy from trying to turn me straight.

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Tell him that you want a break from serious relationships, that right now you just think you aren't ready for it, but you'd love to be friends.

Or you can be like me and just go "No."

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GlassHearts


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Just explain that you dont want a relationship with him, but you value his friendship.

if you say you dont want a man in your life, you might find someone shortly after, and date them, then they guy wont trust you because you lied.

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dilly62301


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tell the truth,, I'm a shallow bitch, and dont want be seen with you..

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SimplisticComplexity


Why so serious?
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If you're not interested in him, then why are you going on a date with him?

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"i really just wanna be friends but thanks for taking me out today"
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nik1


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If the only reason that you are going is because he is paying then it's your character that is more in question than his yukky looks.

Just because you are going on a date with him does not mean that you are obligated to be his steady.  If you are going to permit him to buy your dinner and pay for the date then I think you are somewhat obligated to NOT treat him like he has leprosy.  Talk to him, have a good time, laugh and enjoy hanging with him just like you do when you are not dating him only don't allow the conversation to get personal.  Avoid the conversation.  Talk about anything but relationships.  

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Aileyy


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Quote: from SimplisticComplexity at 7:54 am on July 3, 2009
If you're not interested in him, then why are you going on a date with him?

^ exactly.. are you just looking for a free meal or something hah.

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