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So i accused my boyfriend of cheating on me.
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Replies: 35Last Post July 2 8:01pm by Veldel
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Hello,
my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 4 months nw,
last night my mom told me he saw him wit another girl in a car waiting in line, my mother would not lie about this instead she would try to help me, that is why she warned me, she didnt see them kiss or n e thing but she saw my boyfriend talking and talking an wouldnt stop talking to the girl as if he were trying to entertain her anyways, i slept about 5 hours last night because i couldnt beleive it.
today i woke up so early didnt eat breakfast,
my boyfriend and i texted because we had planned on seeing each other today,
so i went to his house said hi and gave him a hug,
KNOWING something was going on, i held it in, until i said
"so how was your date yesterday wit that girl?" [and i described the girl the way my mom told had described her to me]
and he made a shocked look and said "what girl? when?"
i interrupted him "who is the girl?! "
-"when? what girl?"
so then i described where they were at,
and told him I was the one who saw them,
and pretty much told him everything
what my mom had described,
then he's like "it was my sister, u want 2 see the car, its in the back. ?"
and i was so shocked i couldnt deal with it at the moment,
i shook my head and quickly got into my car,
he's like "i'm going to go get my sister, wait!"
i couldnt stay there any longer, tears were almost gona come out
because i had held them in so long,
i felt TERRIBLE, because i knew for suRe he was cheating on me
when my mom first told me about it.  

i couldnt take it n e more so i left.

i didnt get 2 see the car my mom told me it was,
i didnt get 2 see his sister, as if i were be able 2 recognize her because I DID NOT see her, my mom did.
and now i dont know what to do.
any advice/ideas?

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Aerie


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You're kinda dumb.

Your mom said he saw him with another girl. Big whoop.

She had no right to tell you that if she didn't know.
You know she didn't see them do anything, you had no right to accuse him of cheating. Your mom said he was talking to her, she never said flirting. You jumped to conclusions.
You should feel terrible.

The only ting I can think of telling you is calling him and apologizing. And don't do it again.


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I would leave my partner if they cheated on me.
I dumped my first gf because she cheated on me, I shortly became incredibly racist and became fascist

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aleiram51


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You didn't even give him a chance to explain.

Girls are so crazy

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Your suspicions were understandable.
And it's probably good that you left seeing as you wouldn't have been able to reconize his sister anyway.
You should tell him to come to your house and bring his sister, than way your mom can identify her.

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Trust him?

And you slept five hours? And thats not much? Seriously? Im lucky to get five hours on a good night, so quit your whining. The night my girlfriend openly admitted to cheating on me, I didnt sleep for three days. I would have loved the five hours.

But yeah, trust him. Your mom did not see them kiss, and you really have no evidence that he cheated on you. Just apologize for accusing him, and get over it.

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You guys are lame for not reading. I think you made a silly assumption.
He obviously wouldn't volunteer you to see his sister if you told him you were the one to see them.
I would go and apologize.

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Wow, you guys are really helpful

I say give him a chance to explain.  If you don't trust him, the relationship will go nowhere.  I can definitely understand how you feel though.  It's not like they were kissing, just talking.  It probably was his sister.

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Quote: from Aerie at 10:25 pm on July 2, 2009

You're kinda dumb.  

Your mom said he saw him with another girl. Big whoop.  

She had no right to tell you that if she didn't know.
You know she didn't see them do anything, you had no right to accuse him of cheating. Your mom said he was talking to her, she never said flirting. You jumped to conclusions.  
You should feel terrible.  

The only ting I can think of telling you is calling him and apologizing. And don't do it again.  


basically this.

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zombieman5


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well other then the jerks who didn't read it cause length,

to me you over reacted and was a little overbearing. you have a boyfriend, but you won't let him hangout with friends that are girls. even if he was trying to entertain her. is that wrong? i thought friends entertain eachother? i know i don't just sit there bored with friends.

and if he said it was his sister, have your mom look at her to see if it was her.

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Wow, it took me less than a minute to read. Losers.

Anyway, if he was denying it, saying "what girl" and what not and then made up the story I wouldn't believe the stupid son of a bitch. Once a cheater, always a cheater too. If you forgive, or decide to believe him, he can and will fuck you over. he'll do it even more probably since you just about caught him and he'll feel like he can definitely get away with it. You'll come off gullible. Drop him.


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Wow.  Oh no.

Go apologise and make up to him with a fantastic lovely date.

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