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Wow, it took me less than a minute to read. Losers.

Anyway, if he was denying it, saying "what girl" and what not and then made up the story I wouldn't believe the stupid son of a bitch. Once a cheater, always a cheater too. If you forgive, or decide to believe him, he can and will fuck you over. he'll do it even more probably since you just about caught him and he'll feel like he can definitely get away with it. You'll come off gullible. Drop him.

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She doesn't even know if he was cheating.

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Wow, it took me less than a minute to read. Losers.

Anyway, if he was denying it, saying "what girl" and what not and then made up the story I wouldn't believe the stupid son of a bitch. Once a cheater, always a cheater too. If you forgive, or decide to believe him, he can and will fuck you over. he'll do it even more probably since you just about caught him and he'll feel like he can definitely get away with it. You'll come off gullible. Drop him.

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what the hell

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Wow, it took me less than a minute to read. Losers.

Anyway, if he was denying it, saying "what girl" and what not and then made up the story I wouldn't believe the stupid son of a bitch. Once a cheater, always a cheater too. If you forgive, or decide to believe him, he can and will fuck you over. he'll do it even more probably since you just about caught him and he'll feel like he can definitely get away with it. You'll come off gullible. Drop him.

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There's no evidence he cheated.
And I'm pretty sure he didn't if he offered more than once to show her his sister.

He was asking what girl, because I highly doubt the first girl in his mind would be his sister.

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And if this is love
Please don't break me
I'm giving up
So just catch me...

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Quote: from Karen18 at 7:28 pm on July 2, 2009

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Wow, it took me less than a minute to read. Losers.  

 Anyway, if he was denying it, saying "what girl" and what not and then made up the story I wouldn't believe the stupid son of a bitch. Once a cheater, always a cheater too. If you forgive, or decide to believe him, he can and will fuck you over. he'll do it even more probably since you just about caught him and he'll feel like he can definitely get away with it. You'll come off gullible. Drop him.

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She doesn't even know if he was cheating.

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he did deny it tho!
wtf, i'm going insane....


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You're kinda dumb.  

Your mom said he saw him with another girl. Big whoop.  

She had no right to tell you that if she didn't know.
You know she didn't see them do anything, you had no right to accuse him of cheating. Your mom said he was talking to her, she never said flirting. You jumped to conclusions.  
You should feel terrible.  

The only ting I can think of telling you is calling him and apologizing. And don't do it again.  

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Honestly, if you've never seen his sister and you have nothing but your mother to say he was with some girl. You need to explain what caused you to feel this way to him. Explain that it was your mother who saw this event happen and that you don't know the details that caused you to feel this way.

Trust is an important stepping stone in relationships and you didn't have it. Explain your fault to him and he'll be sure to accept this. Tell him that you're not secure about your place in his mind and that he's going to have to bear with you was you try to feel secure with him.

There is only so much I have to go on and as a guy, I know that I would have appreciated it greatly if you said all of these things to me if I were in his position.

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Quote: from Karen18 at 10:28 pm on July 2, 2009

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Wow, it took me less than a minute to read. Losers.  

 Anyway, if he was denying it, saying "what girl" and what not and then made up the story I wouldn't believe the stupid son of a bitch. Once a cheater, always a cheater too. If you forgive, or decide to believe him, he can and will fuck you over. he'll do it even more probably since you just about caught him and he'll feel like he can definitely get away with it. You'll come off gullible. Drop him.

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There's no evidence he cheated.  
And I'm pretty sure he didn't if he offered more than once to show her his sister.  

He was asking what girl, because I highly doubt the first girl in his mind would be his sister.

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you ARE correct, but then later on today we were texting and arguing and he's like the only girl i was with yesterday was my sister, and i'm like wtf, if it were TRUE he would've told me that right off the bat. you know? or am i wrong?

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Quote: from Aerie at 7:31 pm on July 2, 2009

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Quote: from Karen18 at 10:28 pm on July 2, 2009

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Wow, it took me less than a minute to read. Losers.

  Anyway, if he was denying it, saying "what girl" and what not and then made up the story I wouldn't believe the stupid son of a bitch. Once a cheater, always a cheater too. If you forgive, or decide to believe him, he can and will fuck you over. he'll do it even more probably since you just about caught him and he'll feel like he can definitely get away with it. You'll come off gullible. Drop him.

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 There's no evidence he cheated.
 And I'm pretty sure he didn't if he offered more than once to show her his sister.

 He was asking what girl, because I highly doubt the first girl in his mind would be his sister.

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you ARE correct, but then later on today we were texting and arguing and he's like the only girl i was with yesterday was my sister, and i'm like wtf, if it were TRUE he would've told me that right off the bat. you know? or am i wrong?

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You ARE wrong.
Like I said, the first girl you'd accuse him of a having a date with wouldn't have been his sister.

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And if this is love
Please don't break me
I'm giving up
So just catch me...

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You're really dumb.

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i fix'd it.

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-Knight of Cydonia

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You've accused him of cheating without anything but speculation to incriminate him. I know it's hard to be in the situation you're in now but you've got to see how he's feeling. It's pretty mean of you to walk up and say he was cheating on you without solid proof.

Honestly, if you've never seen his sister and you have nothing but your mother to say he was with some girl. You need to explain what caused you to feel this way to him. Explain that it was your mother who saw this event happen and that you don't know the details that caused you to feel this way.  

Trust is an important stepping stone in relationships and you didn't have it. Explain your fault to him and he'll be sure to accept this. Tell him that you're not secure about your place in his mind and that he's going to have to bear with you was you try to feel secure with him.  

There is only so much I have to go on and as a guy, I know that I would have appreciated it greatly if you said all of these things to me if I were in his position.

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CORRECT, but i came off strong because what if "what if" it really WASNT his sister, and if i had explained everything rationally he would've had a better chance of making up a story right then and there.


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Quote: from beingme at 10:35 pm on July 2, 2009

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Quote: from Aerie at 7:31 pm on July 2, 2009

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Quote: from Karen18 at 10:28 pm on July 2, 2009

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Wow, it took me less than a minute to read. Losers.    

  Anyway, if he was denying it, saying "what girl" and what not and then made up the story I wouldn't believe the stupid son of a bitch. Once a cheater, always a cheater too. If you forgive, or decide to believe him, he can and will fuck you over. he'll do it even more probably since you just about caught him and he'll feel like he can definitely get away with it. You'll come off gullible. Drop him.

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  There's no evidence he cheated.    
  And I'm pretty sure he didn't if he offered more than once to show her his sister.    

  He was asking what girl, because I highly doubt the first girl in his mind would be his sister.

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 you ARE correct, but then later on today we were texting and arguing and he's like the only girl i was with yesterday was my sister, and i'm like wtf, if it were TRUE he would've told me that right off the bat. you know? or am i wrong?

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You ARE wrong.  
Like I said, the first girl you'd accuse him of a having a date with wouldn't have been his sister.  

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true, buT sometimes guys can pretend to not know whats going on, and he is one of them, sometimes he likes to pretend 2 not know whats going on so he'll act all dumb.
aghh what should i do?  

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life's a beach, and i'm just tanning ( :

SAY SORRY.
You are wrong.
You're trying to find ways to pin this off on him, and say it's his fault for it, when it's not.
Go apologize.

It doesn't matter if he plays dumb other times, he's clearly telling the truth now.

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And if this is love
Please don't break me
I'm giving up
So just catch me...

You're in the wrong. Stop trying to pretend otherwise.

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