So, Me and this guy have been practically dating for 4 years now. I met him when I was a Freshmen and now I'm a Senior in high school. He came over the other night, cause I haven't seen him in like 2 years. What I thought was going to be a night of just chilling and catching up ended up to be the best night of my life. I really do love this boy, but I decided not to have sex with him. He didn't pressure me to do anything that we did that night. I decided to do the things I did because I wanted too and I didn't stop him. I wanted to have sex, but there were personal issues going on (time of the month), and it jst wasn't the right time. So my question is...I think that it's time for me to give up my virginity for the one that I love. Many people ask me "Do you love him?" and the answer I give them is yes, I really do love him. It's hard because right now he is in school and is only down here for vacation, but he said taht he will be back. Is it bad that I'm ready to give it up?
How about you wait until you can support a child on your own just in case.
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WickedWiccan
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I think that if it's what you really want to do then you should do it.
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tropicalbreezze2
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no people give it up to one night stands that they dont even know the name of all the time. If you love him do what you think is best.
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brittany101
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do what you want...be your own person
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The Wolfhound
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Puppy love. It is not proven by anything. Virginity is worth shit, but make sure you don't get hurt. You can love an asshole who will dump you the next morning, but what's the use?
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How could you practically date someone for four years when you haven't seen them in two?
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