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hj Post edited at 4:55 pm on July 15, 2009 by Anonymous
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andrethebest1
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Its not too long. Be friends first. distant friends.
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Go Steph Go
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I would say break up with this new girl if you're having these feelings. If you wanted to see if she was the one you wanted, you did and you want her. If she wants to go back out with you, go for it. You guys obviously worked for 2 1/2 years.
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Tensions in our lives that are destroying our minds
Unite themselves together to make our consciousness blind
Conditioned to self-interest with emotions locked away
If that's what they call normal I'd rather be insane
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hahahahastupid
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Try to be friends. It could work
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Monroe
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-Before anything, you need to stop comparing your ex girlfriend to your current girlfriend. You made the choice to jump into a relationship right after ending one that lasted so long. So, you really need to think about your feelings for this new girl. Do you like her, do you care about her, do you get along, do you have fun? Think about those questions. -Don't have contact with your ex while you have a girlfriend. That will only hurt your current girl, and probably make you look like a giant prick. -Why did you and your ex break up in the first place? Remember that reason, and think about if it's any different now. -If you think you still have feelings for your ex girlfriend and you want to contact her, spare your current girlfriends feelings and break up with her. Tell her that you jumped into the relationship too soon, and that you're sorry, and be sure to tell her how great she is. Just DON'T get involved with your ex at all, until this other girl's heart is off the line.
Good luck.
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6:05 pm on July 2, 2009 | Joined: Nov. 2008 | Days Active: 234
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sai
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Yes couples fight - just not everyday. This sounds like a case of the you-never-know-what-you-had-until-you've-lost-it saying. Maybe these feelings are just a result of regret and nothing else. Think about it logically for a minute - if you guys got back together, wouldn't it mean having fights everyday all over again? I think it's best that you ask her out again only if you think you two could improve this time round. And as for your current girlfriend, you might as well dump her, seeing as you don't like her that much anyway.
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Your situation is pretty odd and I'm sure you're not the first one to be in your place. Do yourself a favor: see where she is in life. Is she with a guy whom she's happy with, in a place where she is not wanting a relationship or is she out on the look for a guy. If she's someone who you feel would accept you back into her life, or would she brush you aside as being someone who needs to be expelled. Try to get in contact with the simplest of intentions to just be friends and see if anything happens. If you think the party is able to be there, go for it by all means. Regarding your current girlfriend, you should reconsider it all. If you're thinking about another girl while with her, consider what this means for her? It means that you're not having the connection that holds you there, you're not having having a quality life with her and I know that I personally wouldn't keep something you're thinking beyond already. I'm hoping that you get something out of this. I hope that you get a second chance with the first girl and I wish you the best of luck. Allen
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just be friends until you both are on the same page but before persuring anything with yourr ex be fair to your current girlfriend and break things off if your not feeling her anymore
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You should definitely stop dating this new girl. You're just stringing her along, and that's not fair. 
