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Pinkandpretty

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Wow you're fuckin stupid. If I was that guy I would be getting pissed too!

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SportbikeFreakR6

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Personally I hate waiting on a girl. She should want sex just as much as I want it. I have a hard time waiting any longer than 2 months, but if I was put in a situation like this, 6 months would probally be the limit. I do not believe in waiting until you're married. That is something I will just not do period. If she can't understand that, then we aren't sexually compatible. So if I have sex with someone on the side, she can't get mad, because how is it cheating if she wont give in? Sexless relationships are more friendships than anything. And if a girl wont give it up for years and makes me wait until marriage, then we are better off being friends. Because yes sex is a want, not a need. But at the same time, it's a want I'm not going to give up. I get horny everyday, I can control my hormones, but it's a tease to control them longer than 6 months. If she doesn't want sex with me after 6 months, then don't be suprised if I find sex elsewhere. I'm willing to wait for a girl because I love her,  but I'm not waiting years on her. If she loves me, she'll meet me halfway. If I wait 6 months atleast, she can atleast give in. If she can't then we might as well be friends. Because I don't have sex with friends, I have sex with girls I really care about. Going out and having one night stands, hiring prostitutes, or friends with benefits are all wrong and gross. But if you're in a relationship, there's no reason why she can't give in after 6 months. Sex is a want that I'm not going to live without because some girl is forcing me to wait. No thanks. If I go a week without masturbation I'm already irritable. It's like smoking, drinking, and stuff like that. It's not a need, but a want, sex is the same thing. It's a want I wont give up. I expect my girl to want it as much as I do. I'm tired of guys always being the asshole, but yet girls can be a bitch and make us wait years for sex? A girl who makes her boyfriend wait like that must hate sex. I want a girl who likes sex. Sex should be something you want to do. Not something you are forcing someone to wait. It's always "If you love me, you'll wait." Well guess what, after 6 months I waited long enough, now if you love me, you'll meet me 50/50.

Post edited at 8:56 pm on July 2, 2009 by SportbikeFreakR6


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ApatheticKiller


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Quote: from SportbikeFreakR6 at 8:52 pm on July 2, 2009

Personally I hate waiting on a girl. She should want sex just as much as I want it. I have a hard time waiting any longer than 2 months, but if I was put in a situation like this, 6 months would probally be the limit. I do not believe in waiting until you're married. That is something I will just not do period. If she can't understand that, then we aren't sexually compatible. So if I have sex with someone on the side, she can't get mad, because how is it cheating if she wont give in? Sexless relationships are more friendships than anything. And if a girl wont give it up for years and makes me wait until marriage, then we are better off being friends. Because yes sex is a want, not a need. But at the same time, it's a want I'm not going to give up. I get horny everyday, I can control my hormones, but it's a tease to control them longer than 6 months. If she doesn't want sex with me after 6 months, then don't be suprised if I find sex elsewhere. I'm willing to wait for a girl because I love her, but I'm not waiting years on her. If she loves me, she'll meet me halfway. If I wait 6 months atleast, she can atleast give in. If she can't then we might as well be friends. Because I don't have sex with friends, I have sex with girls I really care about. Going out and having one night stands, hiring prostitutes, or friends with benefits are all wrong and gross. But if you're in a relationship, there's no reason why she can't give in after 6 months. Sex is a want that I'm not going to live without because some girl is forcing me to wait. No thanks. If I go a week without masturbation I'm already irritable. It's like smoking, drinking, and stuff like that. It's not a need, but a want, sex  is the same thing. It's a want I wont give up. I expect my girl to want it as much as I do. I'm tired of guys always being the asshole, but yet girls can be a bitch and make us wait years for sex? A girl who makes her boyfriend wait like that must hate sex. I want a girl who likes sex. Sex should be something you want to do. Not something you are forcing someone to wait. It's always "If you love me, you'll wait." Well guess what, after 6 months I waited long enough, now if you love me, you'll meet me 50/50.

Um, yeah you're right, you wouldn't be compatible...but not sexually imcompatible, your incompatible in your values.  And, it's almost certainly not because the girl doesn't want sex.  Girls want to have sex too, they get horny.  But some, including this one it seems, have certain values like holding off until marriage.  So if you don't value that and you see a girl waiting as an insult to you, then you're absolutely right...your not compatible.

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anongirl


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Quote: from BrittBee at 3:04 pm on July 2, 2009

You're not ridiculous, you have a right to want to wait until marraige.

But being that HE is almost 30, sex is like a basic need pretty much. He thinks you're ridiculous because he doesn't care about sex before marriage.

If he's been with you for 6 months though, he won't just dump you because you put out for him. He would have given up a long time ago.

If you're only holding off because you're worried about getting pregnant, then get on the pill, use condoms, AND have him pull out still.

But if it really means something to you to hold off then don't do it.

Don't be surprised though if he dumps you because you WON'T have sex with him.



i couldnt have said it better myself =]


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Tuski


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Quote: from SportbikeFreakR6 at 8:52 pm on July 2, 2009

Personally I hate waiting on a girl. She should want sex just as much as I want it. I have a hard time waiting any longer than 2 months, but if I was put in a situation like this, 6 months would probally be the limit. I do not believe in waiting until you're married. That is something I will just not do period. If she can't understand that, then we aren't sexually compatible. So if I have sex with someone on the side, she can't get mad, because how is it cheating if she wont give in? Sexless relationships are more friendships than anything. And if a girl wont give it up for years and makes me wait until marriage, then we are better off being friends. Because yes sex is a want, not a need. But at the same time, it's a want I'm not going to give up. I get horny everyday, I can control my hormones, but it's a tease to control them longer than 6 months. If she doesn't want sex with me after 6 months, then don't be suprised if I find sex elsewhere. I'm willing to wait for a girl because I love her, but I'm not waiting years on her. If she loves me, she'll meet me halfway. If I wait 6 months atleast, she can atleast give in. If she can't then we might as well be friends. Because I don't have sex with friends, I have sex with girls I really care about. Going out and having one night stands, hiring prostitutes, or friends with benefits are all wrong and gross. But if you're in a relationship, there's no reason why she can't give in after 6 months. Sex is a want that I'm not going to live without because some girl is forcing me to wait. No thanks. If I go a week without masturbation I'm already irritable. It's like smoking, drinking, and stuff like that. It's not a need, but a want, sex  is the same thing. It's a want I wont give up. I expect my girl to want it as much as I do. I'm tired of guys always being the asshole, but yet girls can be a bitch and make us wait years for sex? A girl who makes her boyfriend wait like that must hate sex. I want a girl who likes sex. Sex should be something you want to do. Not something you are forcing someone to wait. It's always "If you love me, you'll wait." Well guess what, after 6 months I waited long enough, now if you love me, you'll meet me 50/50.


this thread just got owned


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TigressaLynnMae


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Personally I hate waiting on a girl.

Then you don't deserve a girlfriend.


She should want sex just as much as I want it.

And what if she does not? If you love her, you will stuff your dick deep into your underwear, and wait. Because you love her. When she's ready, okay, go for it. Fuck her brains out. But you have to wait. She should have to wait if it were you in her shoes, also. Sex is two sided, honey.


So if I have sex with someone on the side, she can't get mad, because how is it cheating if she wont give in?

It is cheating. She shouldn't ahve to do anything she does not want to, and that includes sex. It is not a 'favor'. It is an intimate act. Goddess, I hate pigs like you. You're the reason I dislike sex. Because I've been in a situation with a man like you, and he pretty much forced me into it, when I was not ready. And I've been scarred, since then. Is that what you want? To hurt your girls?


Sexless relationships are more friendships than anything.

No, they aren't. I was with my guy 8 years (on and off), and we never had sex. But we loved each other, far more than on a friendship level. We didn't need sex to prove our love, nor did we want sex, because it could have easily fucked up our love. Goddess, young twits like you need therapy, or something.


Because yes sex is a want, not a need. But at the same time, it's a want I'm not going to give up. I get horny everyday, I can control my hormones, but it's a tease to control them longer than 6 months. If she doesn't want sex with me after 6 months, then don't be suprised if I find sex elsewhere.

So, yo'ud cheat on someone you loved? Go fuck a tree, you manwhore. That's sick. You can stuff your dick for a few months to a year, without any problems.


I'm willing to wait for a girl because I love her, but I'm not waiting years on her. If she loves me, she'll meet me halfway.

That is not how love works, you twat. You're apparently young, naive, and inexperienced, because you know NOTHING. A man should be willing to wait, forever. Just as the woman should, if it's the man putting off sex. Love is about sacrifice, and sex is about both partner's wants/willingess, not one over the other.


But if you're in a relationship, there's no reason why she can't give in after 6 months.

Maybe after 6 months, she's still not ready. Are you going to fucking try and rape her, then? I know it's going to take me and my current beaux at least a year for anything sexual to happen between us, because that is my number. 7 months to a year. And guess what? He's okay with waiting. He waited two years, with his last girlfriend. Imagine that; A man with a dick, but able to stuff it in his pants for love.


If I go a week without masturbation I'm already irritable. It's like smoking, drinking, and stuff like that. It's not a need, but a want, sex  is the same thing.

That's called 'an addiction', honey. If you cannot go more than a week without masturbation, without getting a bit cranky, there's a problem.


I'm tired of guys always being the asshole, but yet girls can be a bitch and make us wait years for sex?

It's not about 'bitching and wiating'. It's about 'when she's ready'. YOU HAVE TO WAIT UNTIL SHE (Or he, dpeending) is ready. NO QUESTIONS>


Sex should be something you want to do.

You forgot to add, "When the person is ready", at the end. Because it should be just that; Both partners, willing and ready.


Not something you are forcing someone to wait

Oh, but it can be something you force someone to do? That's bullshit.


Well guess what, after 6 months I waited long enough, now if you love me, you'll meet me 50/50.

That is not love.

How old are you? 12? Because that's what it sounds like, you idiot child

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Quote: from DaisyMontana at 11:57 am on July 2, 2009

Quote: from Kaijuu at 11:56 am on July 2, 2009

Quote: from DaisyMontana at 11:54 am on July 2, 2009

You're stupid
 
 Says the whore.


Yes

haha agreed!


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LvL


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No offence but you do sound silly, I mean getting worried of getting knocked up and dumped? From that statement I guess you've had bad experiance in relations. Or someone close to you that you probaly loved lied to you.

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