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Replies: 37 Last Post July 14 5:50pm by LvL
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Googoie
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You are not at fault here.
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11:58 am on July 2, 2009 | Joined: Mar. 2008 | Days Active: 398 Join to learn more about Googoie Michigan, United States | Straight Male | Posts: 9,968 | Points: 15,014
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hishebrewbabe
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good for you.
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Micus
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He's nearly 30. Men are sexual beings and if you don't want sex and he does it's nothing that you can hold against each other but know that it is putting a huge strain on him to have been with you for so long. I had this problem with my last boyfriend.. we had been dating for nearly two months before we had sex. By the end of the two months I was convinced I was never gonna get to have sex with him, and it made me really sad. Not necessarily to "fuck" him, but I'm sure he likes you quite a bit. Six months is a long time! He's probably really close and, like me, wanted to go that next step in being with you. Honestly two months was the longest I was willing to wait for someone. If sex isn't going to be some facet of the relationship SOME point down the line, to me it isn't really worth it. Do you really think that it is in his character to just knock you up and dump you? If you protect yourself properly there's nearly no way you'll get pregnant.
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11:58 am on July 2, 2009 | Joined: Oct. 2004 | Days Active: 1,302 Join to learn more about Micus Connecticut, United States | Gay Male | Posts: 20,928 | Points: 35,775
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BeautifulGirl15
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Use a condom. & you're not rediculous.
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mskennybaby
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he sounds like a tool he should understand but if anything just give him a blow job he'll deal <p>
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Magneto
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Is he 29?
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12:01 pm on July 2, 2009 | Joined: Sep. 2008 | Days Active: 329 Join to learn more about Magneto Minnesota, United States | Straight Male | Posts: 12,284 | Points: 17,616
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BrittBee
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You're not ridiculous, you have a right to want to wait until marraige. But being that HE is almost 30, sex is like a basic need pretty much. He thinks you're ridiculous because he doesn't care about sex before marraige. If he's been with you for 6 months though, he won't just dump you because you put out for him. He would have given up a long time ago. If you're only holding off because you're worried about getting pregnant, then get on the pill, use condoms, AND have him pull out still. But if it really means something to you to hold off then don't do it. Don't be surprised though if he dumps you because you WON'T have sex with him.
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12:04 pm on July 2, 2009 | Joined: May 2009 | Days Active: 59 Join to learn more about BrittBee Michigan, United States | Straight Female | Posts: 4,185 | Points: 4,047
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sai
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Just like how some people view sex as being something of a necessity in a relationship, some people don't - like you. What you could do is explain how you feel about sex to him and well, if he disagrees with your point of view, I don't think there's much you can do except break up with him and find someone who has the same perspective as you.
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12:07 pm on July 2, 2009 | Joined: Aug. 2007 | Days Active: 213 Join to learn more about sai Egypt | Straight Female | Posts: 1,884 | Points: 4,260
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imSOFAKINGrad
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i think you're over reacting about sex.
------- I sit behind her every year Waitin' for the chance to get To tell her I'm the one she should be with
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I never forget
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Well I reccomend that you as a 23 year old stop asking teens to solve your problems, be a big girl and put out.
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