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My boyfriend thinks i am ridiculous
Replies: 37Last Post July 14 5:50pm by LvL
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Quote: from kindredragon at 11:55 am on July 2, 2009

good for you
you can find better



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You are not at fault here.

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hishebrewbabe


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good for you.

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Micus


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He's nearly 30. Men are sexual beings and if you don't want sex and he does it's nothing that you can hold against each other but know that it is putting a huge strain on him to have been with you for so long.

I had this problem with my last boyfriend.. we had been dating for nearly two months before we had sex. By the end of the two months I was convinced I was never gonna get to have sex with him, and it made me really sad. Not necessarily to "fuck" him, but I'm sure he likes you quite a bit. Six months is a long time! He's probably really close and, like me, wanted to go that next step in being with you.

Honestly two months was the longest I was willing to wait for someone. If sex isn't going to be some facet of the relationship SOME point down the line, to me it isn't really worth it.

Do you really think that it is in his character to just knock you up and dump you? If you protect yourself properly there's nearly no way you'll get pregnant.

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BeautifulGirl15


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Use a condom. & you're not rediculous.

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mskennybaby


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he sounds like a tool he should understand but if anything just give him a blow job he'll deal <p>

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Magneto


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Is he 29?

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Sexican


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Well i can kinda see his point mainly because im kind of in the same situation. The way we see it is that we've been with you all this time, and to cut us off like that is pretty insensitive.

We're men with needs, but we still stick around because we love our gfs. You gotta cut us some slack, and im pretty sure ill get alot of hate quotes now too

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BrittBee

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You're not ridiculous, you have a right to want to wait until marraige.

But being that HE is almost 30, sex is like a basic need pretty much. He thinks you're ridiculous because he doesn't care about sex before marraige.

If he's been with you for 6 months though, he won't just dump you because you put out for him. He would have given up a long time ago.

If you're only holding off because you're worried about getting pregnant, then get on the pill, use condoms, AND have him pull out still.

But if it really means something to you to hold off then don't do it.

Don't be surprised though if he dumps you because you WON'T have sex with him.

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sai


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Just like how some people view sex as being something of a necessity in a relationship, some people don't - like you. What you could do is explain how you feel about sex to him and well, if he disagrees with your point of view, I don't think there's much you can do except break up with him and find someone who has the same perspective as you.

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imSOFAKINGrad

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i think you're over reacting about sex.


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FurryCupcake


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I think if that's what you're worried about and the ONLY thing stopping you, you could get some condoms and get on the pill or some other form of birth control. I wouldn't have sex with my boyfriend without being on something either. I wouldn't even do just a condom, I just don't want to risk it.

But if you don't want to deal with it just yet, that's your right and your call.


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Well I reccomend that you as a 23 year old stop asking teens to solve your problems, be a big girl and put out.

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Rofl except once.

YOU RUINED IT!

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TigressaLynnMae


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Men are sexual beings

Men can control themselves, just as much as women. Sex is a two way street. If one doesn't want to fuck/make love/have sex, then there's not going to be a fucking/love making/sexing. You have to wait until your partner is ready. And if you're not willing to wait, then it's not worth waiting for via the other partner.


Honestly two months was the longest I was willing to wait for someone. If sex isn't going to be some facet of the relationship SOME point down the line, to me it isn't really worth it.

Two months?

Good lord.
That's a bit sickening. To me.


We're men with needs

Wants, love. Sex is not a need.


sex is like a basic need pretty much

God, I hate stupid teenagers with hormones.

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