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Is he sick of me, or just a typical boy? |
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Replies: 13 Last Post July 4 8:44pm by kaylar28
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( SparklingFlower )
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Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been together about a week. We've known each other 3 years... it's complicated. Anyway, when he was first telling me about his feelings, he was saying a lot, going on and on about how beautiful, amazing, etc. that he thinks I am... Now, sometimes his texts are sort of brief... He'll tell me things like that, but just not as often. He seems bored sometimes. He seems happy with me when we're together, but he isn't gushing his feelings all over the place, like he seemed like he would.. So, I don't know. Are 20 year old guys just typically kind of quiet about their feelings, or is he feeling less into me, now that we're really dating? Should he constantly be telling me how much he's into me, and how happy he is? Or is that sort of an unrealistic expectation on my part? (I hate being insecure..) Post edited at 2:19 pm on July 4, 2009 by SparklingFlower
------- His *baby doll* since 6/30/09!! It's love
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Complex Kid
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That kind of gushing affection doesn't usually last forever. Eventually the relationship just becomes more routine. People tend to take it for granted after a while, you know.
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audibleSIN
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He's happy in the place that he's in, that's all. It may dull him a little bit, but just keep it exciting if you want.
------- I'm going to regret this, but that's the point. The circus only burns down once.
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Sheebobee
princessconsuelabananahammock
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I'm the same way when it comes to guys doing that just understand that its a typical guy thing it has nothing to do with you
------- The spaces between my fingers are right where yours fit perfectly
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MizsAddiction18
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i was dating a 20 year old when i was 17, he was queit but i think he doesnt feel the need for that anymore cause hes got you already, hat doesnt meen his feelings are less
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sweetness14
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just be unpredictable
------- love is patient, kind, never failing. it respects the right and turns away from the wrong.
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GoodFairy13
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Quote: from SparklingFlower at 10:23 pm on July 4, 2009
Quote: from GoodFairy13 at 2:21 pm on July 4, 2009
Quote: from Complex Kid at 10:19 pm on July 4, 2009
That kind of gushing affection doesn't usually last forever. Eventually the relationship just becomes more routine. People tend to take it for granted after a while, you know. 
They've been together a week, he should still be pretty happy about it. 
So, do you think that he has realized that he doesn't like me as much as he thought?.. 
I dunno, just have a friendly word? I don't know him so I can't pass judgement, it could be that he's just not very affectionate, or he's nervous.
------- If you stare long enough into the darkness, In time, you'll see someone stare back.
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DangerouslyDisturbed
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If its only been a week I wouldn't worry. I'd wait a while, see what happens
------- Four In Five Doctors Agree, That One In Five Doctors Are Idiots.
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tell me again
it's a face
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Since you've known each other for ages, he's probably settled in to the idea of having you around and feels less gushy. I don't think many people compliment their girl all the time though.
------- i spy on you too
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hithere
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ok seriously there's a middle ground between "being sick of you" and "gushing his feelings all over the place"
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