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Quote: from LiveForeverDieTonite at 2:55 pm on July 4, 2009

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Guys can also play mindgames, and they don't get locked either.  The only problem with the "mindgame" punishments is that it all has to do with interpretation.  I mean the girlfriend could say something that pushes a guy over the edge, and may not have meant it like that, ya know?

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I'm talking about things like....  

1. Planning to go on a date, and she doesnt turn up... or cancels without any notice, and doesnt even apologize for it later.

2. Saying she doesnt mind where you's go on the date, and when you choose somewhere to go.... she complains about it anyway

3. Getting a man sexually aroused.... then suddenly ignoring him... to make him chase. (thats the worst)

4. Getting a guys number... but never calling him, just so she can prove to herself that she can get it.

5. Saying things, then doing the exact opposite.

These are just a few examples to help you get an idea of what I mean by "mind games"

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Oh yeah, you're right then.  That's freaking obnoxious. haha

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Quote: from ilovemyheart at 6:00 pm on July 4, 2009

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Quote: from LiveForeverDieTonite at 2:55 pm on July 4, 2009

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Guys can also play mindgames, and they don't get locked either. The only problem with the "mindgame" punishments is that it all has to do with interpretation. I mean the girlfriend could say something that pushes a guy over the edge, and may not have meant it like that, ya know?

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 I'm talking about things like....

 1. Planning to go on a date, and she doesnt turn up... or cancels without any notice, and doesnt even apologize for it later.  

 2. Saying she doesnt mind where you's go on the date, and when you choose somewhere to go.... she complains about it anyway  

 3. Getting a man sexually aroused.... then suddenly ignoring him... to make him chase. (thats the worst)  

 4. Getting a guys number... but never calling him, just so she can prove to herself that she can get it.  

 5. Saying things, then doing the exact opposite.  

 These are just a few examples to help you get an idea of what I mean by "mind games"  

 

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Oh yeah, you're right then. That's freaking obnoxious. haha

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It might just seem that way from a womens perspective.... but for a guy, these type of things can ruin him.

If you want to keep it consistent though, you can say that women physically abuse men but hardly ever get punished; the guy is supposed to be able to handle it and is weak if he can't, it's a double standard.