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Why did i keep it going?
Replies: 10 — Last Post July 4 3:38pm by tell me again
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the reason i kept hanging out with this girl is because I said yes to go to prom with her, because my dad was like "it's the only chance she'll have to have a good time!" and that fucker guilt tripped me into doint it, i would NOT of done it otherwise. So I kept like going to movies, and doing stuff with all this anger thoughts like "why are you doing this dumbass? she doesn't like the terminator, she doesn't like disc golf" and i acted all mopey and depressed at prom because i was a PUSSY who had no free will!! and she didn't know I was that antisocial either. but
now I feel bad about ceasing all contact after 3 weeks. I didn't want her to know what a depressing person i truly was. plus she's a private school girl who's going to a very famous college in my state, and im a loser who'll probably become a pastor or something. would she talk to me even though I randomly stopped all contact?

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Does it matter if you don't like her?

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only one way to find out contact her

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I wouldn't unless you explained why you did it.

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Wealthy Hobo 		Reply
Quote: from DangerouslyDisturbed at 2:56 pm on July 4, 2009
Does it matter if you don't like her?

why? I very rarely change my opinion on a person.

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Quote: from murphy mcbagel at 2:58 pm on July 4, 2009
Quote: from DangerouslyDisturbed at 2:56 pm on July 4, 2009
Does it matter if you don't like her?

why? I very rarely change my opinion on a person.

You said you didn't really like her. But want to contact her now??

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It depends if you stopped contact in a casual or a really obvious way. Maybe she just thought you fell out of contact. You didn't exactly date her anyway, right? So no hard feelings (unless she thought you were together?).

Having said that though, why do you want to contact her? If you don't like her much and you don't enjoy doing the same things, then you probably wouldn't enjoy hanging out with her again. You could still talk to her though. And if you just want to talk to her because you think she's better than you, then it might be hard to form a real friendship anyway...

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I'm confused...are you annoyed because you don't like her and were stuck with her, or because she might not talk to you again?

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Quote: from tell me again at 3:04 pm on July 4, 2009
It depends if you stopped contact in a casual or a really obvious way. Maybe she just thought you fell out of contact. You didn't exactly date her anyway, right? So no hard feelings (unless she thought you were together?).  

Having said that though, why do you want to contact her? If you don't like her much and you don't enjoy doing the same things, then you probably wouldn't enjoy hanging out with her again. You could still talk to her though. And if you just want to talk to her because you think she's better than you, then it might be hard to form a real friendship anyway...


well i never found out if we had things in common. she just made me nervous, and i still felt forced to "keep the ball rolling" if you know what i mean.

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Quote: from jsia at 3:16 pm on July 4, 2009
I'm confused...are you annoyed because you don't like her and were stuck with her, or because she might not talk to you again?

at the beginning yeah, but now i feel i let a good chance go away. cause well all the girls i've been with were slutty, or kind of crazy, but I've never dated someone like normal.

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It should be fine then, just talk to her again. There aren't that many "normal" people though.

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