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Why is it that every guy I fall for turns out to be a jerk?
Replies: 42 — Last Post July 10 4:28am by nzm17
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( amandalillian9 )


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Right now I don't even know what I want. All I know is that I never end up falling for the right guy and I think it might never happen. Why is it so hard to find the right person?
Being nice just isn't me and when I am nice people think I'm sick. I can only ever manage to be nice for about 5 minutes without making a sarcastic comment/remark or saying something negative to someone.

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First thing first. you're being way overdramatic about never finding the right guy. You've got a WHOLE lot of living to do. I'm only 19 and i'm not worried about finding ms right cause i got PLENTY of time to go through the dating scene until I meet her.

You'll find them you just need to stop being so obsessed with finding them

also if being nice just isn't you then don't do it if you don't want to. I just mainly made those suggestions if you wanted to find a way to be nice to people

and to be honest who cares if others think you're sick when you're nice?

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Good point. Maybe I'll just take a break from the dating world for a while and concentrate on my dancing.

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Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:54 pm on July 5, 2009
Good point. Maybe I'll just take a break from the dating world for a while and concentrate on my dancing.
sounds like a plan

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( amandalillian9 )


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Yeah. Dancing never breaks your heart.

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It's for the most part, on your side. You need to change who you are attracted to.

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Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:54 pm on July 5, 2009
Good point. Maybe I'll just take a break from the dating world for a while and concentrate on my dancing.

Don't waste peoples time. Use some of this advice...you don't know how to be nice?

Gee, it's no wonder you fall for jerks... =/

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Guys want love me than you realize, but sometimes when we get close we over criticize and over think everything about said girl. Maybe its a fear of commitment or maybe its we only look for something that has a high chance of promise

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So why did I do it? I could offer a million answers, all false.
The truth is that I'm a bad person, but that's going to change.
I'm going to change.
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Quote: from amandalillian9 at 8:28 pm on July 5, 2009
I hate them.
Possibly you're looking in the wrong places / manner.


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Wow amandalilian9 do you really expect to be a bitch to people and never get treated badly yourself, especially from guys? You deserve everything you get in your failed relationships.
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Katey1

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Cuz there all pricks!!
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The odds are against you.  In my opinion most males are jerks.  You will be better off assuming they are jerks and test them for it before becoming emotionally involved.
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Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:28 pm on July 5, 2009
I hate them.

You claim to hate them. Although they give you the emontional roller coaster that you want.

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