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Areola
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I would feel awkward, and talk to them about why.
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She's gone.
She gave me a pen.
I gave her my heart,
she gave me a pen.
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I'd tell them I really wished I didn't and I'd be willing to do anything to help them find a better means of dealing with stress.
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I would worried and pissed off at the same time.
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I'd talk to them about it.
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Show me anger, fierce fist clutching onto air
Show me anything, just show me you care.
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Disposition
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I would be sad and try to convince them out of it. I would feel disappointed but I'd never tell them that. I would be angry but wouldn't let it show. If I did, they'd be more likely to cut.
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Quote: from Just Waiting Here at 9:48 pm on July 5, 2009
 Quote: from Disposition at 6:46 pm on July 5, 2009
I would be sad and try to convince them out of it. I would feel disappointed but I'd never tell them that. I would be angry but wouldn't let it show. If I did, they'd be more likely to cut.
So you'd say they could cut? The person is asking you... If you told the person that you didn't want to end the promise, then they would never cut... But if you said alright to ending the promise, then they might go back to it... Does this make sense? -Probably not... lol.
Oh, no no. I didn't mean that it was okay. I would try to convince them otherwise... You can't dictate what a person will do by just telling them not to do it. If said person says, "I've decided to cut again," I wouldn't say, "Oh, you can't do that! I won't let you!" That's more frustrating than it is helpful, and I've been in that situation before. Encouraging them to do other behaviors that are more positive is a lot more beneficial. Yes, you can disapprove of it to their face, but I wouldn't feel like I had the right to tell them they *can't* do it. Sorry if I didn't make that clear in the first place-- I would not be okay with them ending the promise. Post edited at 1:46 pm on July 6, 2009 by Disposition
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Quote: from Disposition at 1:45 pm on July 6, 2009
Quote: from Just Waiting Here at 9:48 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from Disposition at 6:46 pm on July 5, 2009
I would be sad and try to convince them out of it. I would feel disappointed but I'd never tell them that. I would be angry but wouldn't let it show. If I did, they'd be more likely to cut.
So you'd say they could cut? The person is asking you... If you told the person that you didn't want to end the promise, then they would never cut... But if you said alright to ending the promise, then they might go back to it... Does this make sense? -Probably not... lol.
No. I didn't mean that it was okay. I would try to convince them otherwise... You can't dictate what a person will do by just telling them not to do it. If said person says, "I've decided to cut again," I wouldn't say, "Oh, you can't do that! I won't let you!" That's more frustrating than it is helpful, and I've been in that situation before. Encouraging them to do other behaviors that are more positive is a lot more beneficial. Yes, you can disapprove of it to their face, but I wouldn't feel like I had the right to tell them they *can't* do it. Sorry if I didn't make that clear in the first place-- I would not be okay with them ending the promise.
Hmm... yeah, it makes sense. Thanks :)
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Disposition
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Quote: from Just Waiting Here at 4:50 pm on July 6, 2009
Quote: from Disposition at 1:45 pm on July 6, 2009
Quote: from Just Waiting Here at 9:48 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from Disposition at 6:46 pm on July 5, 2009
I would be sad and try to convince them out of it. I would feel disappointed but I'd never tell them that. I would be angry but wouldn't let it show. If I did, they'd be more likely to cut.
So you'd say they could cut? The person is asking you... If you told the person that you didn't want to end the promise, then they would never cut... But if you said alright to ending the promise, then they might go back to it... Does this make sense? -Probably not... lol.
No. I didn't mean that it was okay. I would try to convince them otherwise... You can't dictate what a person will do by just telling them not to do it. If said person says, "I've decided to cut again," I wouldn't say, "Oh, you can't do that! I won't let you!" That's more frustrating than it is helpful, and I've been in that situation before. Encouraging them to do other behaviors that are more positive is a lot more beneficial. Yes, you can disapprove of it to their face, but I wouldn't feel like I had the right to tell them they *can't* do it. Sorry if I didn't make that clear in the first place-- I would not be okay with them ending the promise.
Hmm... yeah, it makes sense. Thanks :)
Ok :]
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