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i hate detective work

Post edited at 1:13 am on July 6, 2009 by Anonymous

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Should i like tell him afterwards to make him feel like the dumbass he is.. I somehow wont feel vindicated unless he knows of my scheme lol

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Should i like tell him afterwards to make him feel like the dumbass he is.. I somehow wont feel vindicated unless he knows of my scheme lol

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Seriously, go for it. Make sure you call him though instead of telling him in person. Safety first!

Post edited at 9:22 pm on July 5, 2009 by lulurofl

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Quote: from Anonymous at 9:16 pm on July 5, 2009

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Should i like tell him afterwards to make him feel like the dumbass he is.. I somehow wont feel vindicated unless he knows of my scheme lol

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Seriously, go for it. Make sure you call him though instead of telling him in person. Safety first!

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Yes, of course ! I know  

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what a prick! he is. haha totally do that, let him think you're prego, that is so smart, i give you props. and yes after he guves you the money totally tell him the truth lol, its only fair, you got hurt by him and he cant just get away with it! just make sure that next time you decide to have sex, take some time to get to know the guy and not move so quik, cuz many guys just want the sex honey, especially if they are young.

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Thanks, im trying but for some reason i fall for guys so easily and they play it so good i think they are into me too.. like this con man.. But im learning, i wont make this mistake again. I dont plan on having sex again for a very long time.

Yes. Not because he didn't deserve it or because he's not a prick, but because it's wrong either way. Did you never hear the phrase "Two wrongs don't make a right" growing up? He's a prick so you get him back by being a prick as well? Not only is it juvenile but to any adult, you've lost what little wiggle space you had to judge him on by sinking to his level. You could have been the bigger person and simply ended the relationship and people would have been more than sympathetic. But since you decided to swindle him and turn it into a greedy money grubbing scheme, you're essentially just a golddigger.

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Wow, I can't believe I'm the only one who's saying yes here. Then again, most of these kids on here are like 15-17 so their moral compass is pretty much non-existant.

Yes. Not because he didn't deserve it or because he's not a prick, but because it's wrong either way. Did you never hear the phrase "Two wrongs don't make a right" growing up? He's a prick so you get him back by being a prick as well? Not only is it juvenile but to any adult, you've lost what little wiggle space you had to judge him on by sinking to his level. You could have been the bigger person and simply ended the relationship and people would have been more than sympathetic. But since you decided to swindle him and turn it into a greedy money grubbing scheme, you're essentially just a golddigger.

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I dont agree. No, it doesnt make anything right, but it will make me feel better, and he damn sure doesnt care so why should I. Actually im 19, I did end the 'relationship', but what does that do for him? Hes the player who had his girlfriend and had me too and he wont learn anything.. And whether he does learn anything or not i dont give a fuck but shopping is a good medication for pain ! Im tired of girls just having to take guys shit and they get away scott free ! Thats why they do it, cause we dont shit shit about it. We sit idly by. Judge me if you want, but I've made up my mind. The only reason i felt bad about it was lying about the abortion thing, but oh well.. Maybe he'll think twice the next time, cause the next girl mite do much worse. And really its not about the money, ive never been a "money grubber" as u call it but i feel i should get something from him if i can other than just this sick angry disgusted feeling. And anyway hes just a dumbass. He had it coming.