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My boyfriend hates mexicans
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Quote: from im with stupid at 7:07 pm on July 9, 2009

Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:57 pm on July 9, 2009

No its not. I have a reason to hate that individual person. I'm not assuming that a group of people are all the same based on a few. I find out that I don't like them because of their personality. Not because of their looks. I hate them because of WHO THEY ARE ON THE INSIDE.

It's still biased hating. Do you get what I am saying?



No, he hates people because of their race. Its completely different from hating someone because of their behavior and what they say.

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Quote: from Kaijuu at 9:14 pm on July 9, 2009

Quote: from im with stupid at 7:07 pm on July 9, 2009

Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:57 pm on July 9, 2009

No its not. I have a reason to hate that individual person. I'm not assuming that a group of people are all the same based on a few. I find out that I don't like them because of their personality. Not because of their looks. I hate them because of WHO THEY ARE ON THE INSIDE.
 

 It's still biased hating. Do you get what I am saying?



No, he hates people because of their race. Its completely different from hating someone because of their behavior and what they say.

Again, it's still biased hating. Two wrongs don't make a right.

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Quote: from im with stupid at 7:31 pm on July 9, 2009

Quote: from Kaijuu at 9:14 pm on July 9, 2009

Quote: from im with stupid at 7:07 pm on July 9, 2009

Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:57 pm on July 9, 2009

No its not. I have a reason to hate that individual person. I'm not assuming that a group of people are all the same based on a few. I find out that I don't like them because of their personality. Not because of their looks. I hate them because of WHO THEY ARE ON THE INSIDE.

  It's still biased hating. Do you get what I am saying?


 
 No, he hates people because of their race. Its completely different from hating someone because of their behavior and what they say.

Again, it's still biased hating. Two wrongs don't make a right.



its not biased. I have a valid reason to hate that individual person. they dont.

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Quote: from Kaijuu at 9:33 pm on July 9, 2009

its not biased. I have a valid reason to hate that individual person. they dont.

Two wrongs don't make a right. Am I going to have to repeat myself every two posts?

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Quote: from im with stupid at 7:41 pm on July 9, 2009

Quote: from Kaijuu at 9:33 pm on July 9, 2009

its not biased. I have a valid reason to hate that individual person. they dont.

Two wrongs don't make a right. Am I going to have to repeat myself every two posts?



MOTHERFUCKER I HAVE A VALID REASON TIO O HATE RACISTS. IF YOU'RE GOING TO HATE SOMEONE YOU SHOULD HAVE A VALID REASON TO HATE THEM AS AN INDIVIDUAL.

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IM WITH STUPID I don't understand what you are getting at.

Surely it's wrong to hate any group for any particular reason because that incites irrationale behaviour. To hate racists may cause a culture of hating racists which would cause hate crimes against racists, which is basically a wrong thing despite the fact that they are racist.

BUT, I do not see how it would be "judging" a racist to dislike them as an individual because of their racist views. Which is to say that being racist is a view of the world or a kind of individual opinion, and a person's personality is a conglomeration of opinions and memories. So I don't think to dislike someone for being racist would be "judging" them (in the negative sense) since being racist is sort of a key indicator of one's personality.

The reasons for being racist may be a little more obscure, but racism in itself implies ignorance and ignorance is a swell reason to be adverse to someone. Perhaps not HATE, but to dislike.


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Also the OP should talk with her boyfriend about why he hates mexicans.

You should not condone it and not ignore it if it bothers you. Challenge him on it. Say "Why do you hate mexicans?"

Whatever he says just say what you think of it. If he says "Because they're fucking wetbacks lulz" and you think thats retarded than say "I'm serious, thats not a reason. I could say I hate blacks because they're fucking niggers but thats not a reason" (even though you're black I suppose).

If he insists on being irrationaly racist then you have learned a valuable piece of information, your boyfriend is thick and immature and ignorant. Thats a good reason to leave him.

If he says he was joking than you can either accept that or say you don't appreciate joking about racism or whatever.


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Quote: from Kaijuu at 9:43 pm on July 9, 2009

Quote: from im with stupid at 7:41 pm on July 9, 2009

Quote: from Kaijuu at 9:33 pm on July 9, 2009

its not biased. I have a valid reason to hate that individual person. they dont.
 

 Two wrongs don't make a right. Am I going to have to repeat myself every two posts?



MOTHERFUCKER I HAVE A VALID REASON TIO O HATE RACISTS. IF YOU'RE GOING TO HATE SOMEONE YOU SHOULD HAVE A VALID REASON TO HATE THEM AS AN INDIVIDUAL.

U mad?

Regardless, you shouldn't hate anyone.

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Quote: from im with stupid at 8:36 pm on July 9, 2009

Quote: from Kaijuu at 9:43 pm on July 9, 2009

Quote: from im with stupid at 7:41 pm on July 9, 2009

Quote: from Kaijuu at 9:33 pm on July 9, 2009

its not biased. I have a valid reason to hate that individual person. they dont.

  Two wrongs don't make a right. Am I going to have to repeat myself every two posts?


 
 MOTHERFUCKER I HAVE A VALID REASON TIO O HATE RACISTS. IF YOU'RE GOING TO HATE SOMEONE YOU SHOULD HAVE A VALID REASON TO HATE THEM AS AN INDIVIDUAL.

U mad?

Regardless, you shouldn't hate anyone.



IYO

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Quote: from Kaijuu at 10:36 pm on July 9, 2009

Quote: from im with stupid at 8:36 pm on July 9, 2009

Quote: from Kaijuu at 9:43 pm on July 9, 2009

Quote: from im with stupid at 7:41 pm on July 9, 2009

Quote: from Kaijuu at 9:33 pm on July 9, 2009

its not biased. I have a valid reason to hate that individual person. they dont.
   

  Two wrongs don't make a right. Am I going to have to repeat myself every two posts?



  MOTHERFUCKER I HAVE A VALID REASON TIO O HATE RACISTS. IF YOU'RE GOING TO HATE SOMEONE YOU SHOULD HAVE A VALID REASON TO HATE THEM AS AN INDIVIDUAL.

 

 U mad?  

 Regardless, you shouldn't hate anyone.



IYO

Do you think it is right to hate someone?

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Quote: from im with stupid at 8:39 pm on July 9, 2009

Quote: from Kaijuu at 10:36 pm on July 9, 2009

Quote: from im with stupid at 8:36 pm on July 9, 2009

Quote: from Kaijuu at 9:43 pm on July 9, 2009

Quote: from im with stupid at 7:41 pm on July 9, 2009

Quote: from Kaijuu at 9:33 pm on July 9, 2009

its not biased. I have a valid reason to hate that individual person. they dont.

   Two wrongs don't make a right. Am I going to have to repeat myself every two posts?


   
  MOTHERFUCKER I HAVE A VALID REASON TIO O HATE RACISTS. IF YOU'RE GOING TO HATE SOMEONE YOU SHOULD HAVE A VALID REASON TO HATE THEM AS AN INDIVIDUAL.

  U mad?

  Regardless, you shouldn't hate anyone.


 
 IYO

Do you think it is right to hate someone?



if you hate them for who they are then yes. Its okay.

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You're judging all racists on a few racists that you've met.

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Quote: from Neodymie at 11:55 pm on July 9, 2009

You're judging all racists on a few racists that you've met.

racist:a person with a prejudiced belief that one race is superior to others

I hate all people with that ignorant belief
stop trying to be funny.

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God i hate em too:(

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Just have him come to you with a group of mexicans, he might get the gist and lighten up.

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