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Guys/girls is it a turn off
Replies: 29 — Last Post July 6 9:55pm by kaylar28
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Guys is it a turn off When a girl expects you to pay for dates and things like that?

Girls is it a turn off when a guy doesn't offer to pay for a date and why?


Personally if I were to date I'd want to pay just because I like buying things if I like someone. If she -expected- it though, I'd kind of lose interest right there.

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no i think a guy needs to pay!

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yeah its rude to expect someone to buy it because its almost as if they dont appreciate it as much

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Quote: from joker678 at 10:37 am on July 6, 2009
no i think a guy needs to pay!

Why?

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blitzerdog


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guys no.
girls yes i think.

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Sudo XE


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no, I like paying for things

gives me a chance to show off

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i dont like things being bought for me =(
makes me feel bad..

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I pay if I have the money. It's kinda lame when she expects me to pay her way when I both a) seriously don't have the money and b) she has the money, but doesn't want to spend it because it's *my* responsibility.

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Quote: from Sudo XE at 1:37 pm on July 6, 2009
no, I like paying for things

gives me a chance to show off


showing off is a turn off

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i like to pay for my own things, but if a guy really insists i'd let him pay

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i think the person who asked for the date should pay.


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i always pay for me and my gf.. regardless even when she wants to pay and begs me 2 pay lol
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I'd rather someone paid. Who wouldn't want a free dinner? Lol.

But no, it wouldn't be a turn off if we paid half. I'd expect that.

It would only be a turn off if he expected me to pay for everything.

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I'm a girl. If I have money, I'm more than happy to pay for the both of us.

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Quote: from visualcandyxo at 1:38 pm on July 6, 2009
i dont like things being bought for me =(
makes me feel bad..

Same for me too

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