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Guys/girls is it a turn off
Replies: 29 — Last Post July 6 9:55pm by kaylar28
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Pillowpants


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its socially acceptable for the guy to. so if he demands not to, its him being thick skulled and an asshole. or at least revealing future problems of this.
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I'd like him to pay but I don't expect. If he asks me to split it then I wouldn't mind.

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theycallherlove


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it doesn't really matter to me : )
i'm cool with splitting the check, but it is nice for the guy to offer to pay from time to time.
i wouldn't expect him to get the check everytime though
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LaLiLuLeLo
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Quote: from ifyoulikepinacoladas at 10:39 am on July 6, 2009
I'm a girl. If I have money, I'm more than happy to pay for the both of us.

I think it should be this way!
If both people are arguing to pay for it all, you know you have a good relationship.

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Lightning Strikes


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I wouldn't expect him to pay. I don't like people buying things for me, it makes me feel guilty because it's their money and should be used on themselves.
If i had the money, I would pay for both, because even though I hate being bought things, I don't mind paying for stuff for other people.

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LaLiLuLeLo
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And to be honest, I'm kind of annoyed by the girls who just say "Well it's really nice if the guy pays for it all"...

=/ Well of course it's nice, you get to sit back do nothing and use people to get free things, how noble of you.

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GlassHearts


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I feel bad when people pay for me when i go somewhere, so if they try it, i always end up sneaking money into their pocket or something when i hug them. thats if they dont just take the money ofc xD

I dont think a guy should pay, i think it should be equal.I like to treat guys, i think it's only fair.     x

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RIMHfire


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Unless the guy really insists, then I usually like to pay. But I think it's cute if a guy pays for me.
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No, it'd feel weird not paying for the dates actually..

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Lucid Nightmare


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I think the person who asks should pay. If the guy asks, he pays. If the girl asks, she pays. Then you could just take turns after that or something.

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Quote: from MandyMarie at 10:39 am on July 6, 2009
Quote: from Sudo XE at 1:37 pm on July 6, 2009
no, I like paying for things  

 gives me a chance to show off


showing off is a turn off

not if you do it with style

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where they do that at? -_-

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gore


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i love it when a guy pays for me but i don't expect it

Post edited at 7:19 pm on July 6, 2009 by gore

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EliEe


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Quote: from Cunning Stunt at 10:39 am on July 6, 2009
I pay if I have the money. It's kinda lame when she expects me to pay her way when I both a) seriously don't have the money and b) she has the money, but doesn't want to spend it because it's *my* responsibility.

lol i don't cvare either way i to do free things anyhow

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gore


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and how do you not have a gf? you're pretty sexy
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kaylar28


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I dont expect a guy to pay for everything all the time. It makes me feel dependant on them and i hate that. My boyfriend and I usually pay half and half, or switch up who pays. Although i agree with what Lucid nightmare said, if a guy asks a girl on a date they should pay and vice versa.
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