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Sending a message to her to let her know i'm over her?
Replies: 16Last Post July 7 12:14pm by iluzy
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Well, I finally gained alot of closure after telling the girl I liked for 3 years how I felt. She led me on a bit, and finally i'm over it. I feel like there is still a twinge in the pit of my stomach that aches desperately for her, just like before. I think that I can put it to rest if I send her a message telling her I'm finally over her.
[I know her in real life, but Myspace is our main way of communication. And no, I can't do it in person.]

For some reason, I still have a bit of doubt. Like maybe I don't want to get rid of it. But I know I need to. So should I do it?

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do it and get it over with

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give me a paper & pen
so i can write about my life of sin

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If it's over why bother wasting anymore time on it?

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don't

it'll seem like you're NOT letting go, which you aren't.

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richteabiscuits


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Go for it, even if you kinda regret it after, I'm sure it'll be for the best in the long run?

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sure, just dont be creepy

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My ex called me after a couple years to tell me he was over me. I thought it was weird and semi-funny.

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Oh god.
I'm starting to realize maybe i'm not...

No. I am. ...Right?  

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tell her you are not going to communicate anymore

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Quote: from Skip at 5:02 pm on July 6, 2009

tell her you are not going to communicate anymore

Yeah, thats basically the plan. To let her know I really don't want anything. At all.

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I'd leave it be, if it were me.

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Other than our clothes.

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If she lead you on, then I believe that you are doing the right thing.

To get over someone is hard, and I have, and so have many others, been there and has stumbled across this question, puzzled and confused in thinking "am I doing the right thing?"


I, personally, think you are doing a good thing.


You need to move on, and if you don't want her anymore in your life (and I assume you don't), then go ahead and tell her that there is no more communication between you and her.


That said, I would go as far as not INCLUDING Myspace as an only way to communicate, if what you are trying to achieve is life without her meddling in your path.


It is this, I would tell her: "I'm over you now, and I think it is best that you and i should never talk".  

Short, simple, and gets the point across. No point in being all "Oh hi, we cant talk anymore (long and drawn out, by that time you will probably contradict yourself a hundred times)".

But then again, even posting it might lead her to think otherwise.

Up to you. Post a message saying you dont want to ever communicate, or just ignore her completely.

-R'

Post edited at 4:14 pm on July 6, 2009 by thisCRESCENDO

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I think sending her a message would tell her that you are not over her:

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Scoutindigo


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Quote: from Brooktini at 3:59 pm on July 6, 2009

If it's over why bother wasting anymore time on it?

I agree.

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if your over her.. dont tell her just hold that gut and move on..

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