I caught my boyfriend of several years texting his new co-worker things like..
"I miss you."
"Hey pretty whatcha doin?"
"Don't lie you're thinking about me aren't you?"
..among a few other things. He is 24 and this girl is 17 and apparently has a boyfriend, too. I have never met her but when I talked to her, she was very nice & told me nothing was going on whatsoever. My boyfriend says it was all a joke because when he gave her a ride home when her boyfriend never came, a sixteen-year-old co-worker (who I'm told is sleeping with a guy who's got a girl) started a rumor that something must be going on between them, so in spite of her & her gossiping circle, my boyfriend & this little girl started joking about it with & in front of others. The texts were sent during their working hours. I do not fully believe my boyfriend would intentionally be flirting with this little girl, but my best friend doesn't seem happy that we talked it over. I don't know what to do. I still have odd, doubtful "what-ifs" in the pit of my stomach!
There is much more detail but if I included the rest, the post would be awfully long. So going off of this, what do you guys think?